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Men may appear tough but inside, they also feel the need to be accepted. They have wants and needs that have to be fulfilled. Most of the time, these wants and needs can only be catered by a woman. Your man might be giving you a hint already on what he likes and dislikes, you can't just decipher them. Here's a list you can go through that tells about what men dislikes and what they wish to have or to receive. Attract men to you by providing them things under what men want from women. MENS WISH #1 What men want from women is that they don't bug them especially during work. Do not call your man in the office from time to time if you don't have an important thing to discuss. Calling your man on a regular basis makes you nosy and controlling. Yes, sometimes you'll feel the urge to hear his voice and talk to him but you have to control it. To attract men to you, you have to give them the freedom and make them feel that they can do some things without informing you. That is number one in what men want from women. MENS WISH #2 Attract men to have a better relationship with you by being fair to him especially during arguments. Do not take the superiority or authority. Men don't like to be commanded around. What men want from women is their ability to listen to them even when they are wrong. You should not give importance to who wins or who lose but rather, give importance to each other above anything else. To attract men to you, calm down and listen. MENS WISH #3 What men want from women is how they look good. Women, you don't have to make drastic changes on your looks. You can just make yourself presentable, neat and beautiful. Women's beauty and simplicity never fail to attract men to them. MENS WISH #4 Attract men to connect with you by buying him simple presents. It doesn't have to be expensive but a simple object that he needs is enough. What men want from women is them being unpredictable because it also opens door to surprises. Do not buy soaps, candles or posters because those gifts are for your girl friends. Buy your man toys, video games or tickets to a game that he likes. Above all these things, it is very important to attract men to a healthy relationship with you. Understand them just how you want to be understood. Remember the saying 'Behind every man's success is a woman.' You may just feel that your man doesn't need you or he may just say it in jest, but actually, he needs you. A man always needs a woman to care for him, to give him pieces of advice, to prepare him a sumptuous meal, to fix his clothes, to hug him when he's tired, to accept him for who he is and to love him without if's or but's. Those are what men want from women. Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):Real Man - 5 Common Mistakes Men Make While Approaching WomanWayne Ross - Secrets To Attracting Beautiful WomenDan Bacon - Becoming A Man Who Naturally Attracts WomenLabels: dating mistakes friend opener badboy robbery motives women ross jeffries identical anatomy seduction associate positive emotions dominant male mastery course backtrack kama sutra positions pics washington restaurant 2009
Published by Mira Ink in February 2013"Keeping secrets isn't my speciality. It never has been, ever since kindergarten when I found out Becky Swanson had a crush on Tommy Barnes, and I managed to circulated that fact to the entire class, including Tommy himself, within our fifteen minute recess-a pretty impressive feat, in retrospect. That was ten years ago, and it still may hold the record for my personal best. "GOODREADS SUMMARYEveryone knows that Chelsea Knot can't keep a secret
Until now. Because the last secret she shared turned her into a social outcast-and nearly got someone killed.
Now Chelsea has taken a vow of silence-to learn to keep her mouth shut, and to stop hurting anyone else. And if she thinks keeping secrets is hard, not speaking up when she's ignored, ridiculed and even attacked is worse.
But there's strength in silence, and in the new friends who are, shockingly, coming her way-people she never noticed before; a boy she might even fall for. If only her new friends can forgive what she's done. If only she can forgive herself.
This book really surprised me. I had read the author's first book and it hadn't caught my interest as much as other people's, so I was slightly blas'e about Speechless. What I found from the very first page of Speechless, was a very powerful book with an extremely strong opening that shows the reality of bullying and gossip that occurs so frequently in schools these days. The author has captured the internet/phone bullying era perfectly.
Chelsea comes across as shallow to begin with. She lives and breathes for a good bit of gossip, regardless of how it might hurt someone. Until the inevitable happens and her big mouth leads to someone nearly losing their life. Chelsea is fully aware of who committed the crime and realises that this time, she needs to open her mouth to tell the truth, even if it means she will be bullied by everyone at school. As soon as Chelsea tells the truth and takes a vow of silence, you see her begin to transform from mean girl, into thoughtful, kind hearted girl. She learns the true value of friendship as the people who should really hate her, become her real friends. Her previous group of friends come across as superficial and flat and it shows they were definitely not worth knowing.
I loved Sam! He is the original gorgeous geek. With his glasses and eclectic dress sense, he just came across as completely gorgeous. And I adored the diner. It took me back to university days when I spent every spare minute working in an American diner.
Chelsea really suffers at the hands of the bullies. How she stayed strong throughout the bullying I honestly don't know.
The book has a Pretty In Pink feel to it, especially with Chelsea attempting to make her own clothes. These are the first YA female characters who actually have hobbies that I would enjoy!
I think this book should really be on every teenager's reading list. It highlights just how wrong bullying is and would make a great study book for PSHE.
