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Here is a study on the 'GOLDEN RATIO' that determines the facial beauty of a woman.
Conducted by the researchers of University of California and the University of Toronto, the study has drawn its conclusions from the opinions given by people.
We have a complete book on ANGA SASTRA in India developed by astrologer- rishis for the ideal features for men and women from head to toe. I don't know what methodology they used for arriving at their conclusions. But they have connected the features to some predictions about the life and future. Anga sastra for both men and women therefore is part of predictive astrology.
SOMETIME AGO WE SAW A SIMILAR STUDY DONE BY WESTERNERS ON MEN - CONNECTING THE SQUARE FACE OF MEN TO AGGRESSIVENESS. IN THAT CONTEXT I GAVE SOME OUTLINES OF ANGA SASTRA FOR MEN IN MY POST FACE SHOWS THE CHARACTER OF MEN?
In this post, I don't want to delve into the entire sastra for women but confine myself with some interesting points on face and marks on face of women.
The facial lakshana for women given in anga sastra is slightly different from what these researchers have found out.
Facial sastra says that THE IDEAL FEMALE FACE HAS 3 EQUAL DIVISIONS - the length of the forehead must be equal to the length of the nose which must be equal to the length from the tip of the nose to the end of the chin.
The BEAUTIFUL EYEBROW is that which is curved like a bow. We find comparison of eyebrow of women to a bow in many old texts. Or it must be like crescent moon.
THE FOREHEAD must be like half moon.
Speaking on MOLES AND MARKS ON THE FACE, it is said that a mole in the centre of the forehead will get a woman married to a rich person.
Similar is the prediction for one who has a mole at the tip of the nose.
If there is a mole on the left cheek, such a woman will be a contended woman. She will enjoy good food also.
Generally it is lucky to have moles in the left side of the body for women.
Connecting the facial feature to HOROSCOPIC INDICATIONS, the first house indicates the face the looks of a person. For a woman to have the above said features of sanga sastra, the lagna must be one lorded or occupied by Venus. Benefics in Lagna makes one look beautiful. The lagna Drekkana falling in benefic houses also makes one look beautiful.
- jayasree
From
http://www.dc-epaper.com/DC/DCC/2009/12/18/ArticleHtmls/18 12 2009 013 011.shtml?Mode=0#
NEW `GOLDEN RATIOS FOR FEMALE FACIAL BEAUTY
It is said that beautiful eyes make a woman attractive but according to a study distance between them and the mouth also hold the key to her looks. According to researchers from the University of California and the University of Toronto, the distance between a womans two eyes and between her eyes and mouth are key factors in determining how attractive she is to others.
Pamela Pallett and Stephen Link of UC San Diego and Kang Lee of the University of Toronto tested the existence of an ideal facial feature arrangement and successfully identified the optimal relation between the eyes, the mouth and the edge of the face for individual beauty.
In four separate experiments, the team asked university students to make paired comparisons of attractiveness between female faces with identical facial features but different eye-mouth distances and different distances between the eyes.
They discovered two "golden ratios," one for length and one for width.
Female faces were judged more attractive when the vertical distance between their eyes and the mouth was approximately 36 per cent of the faces length, and the horizontal distance between their eyes was approximately 46 per cent of the faces width. Interestingly, these proportions correspond with those of an average face, the journal Vision Research said.
"The Greeks found what they believed was a `golden ratio - also known as `phi or the `divine proportion - and used it in their architecture and art," Pallett said.
Rejection can be tough to handle. I know because I face them often in my life.
As a personal development blogger, some readers reject what I write in my articles, sometimes writing lengthy personal emails to tell me why I'm wrong. In my work as a speaker, there are times when participants reject what I share during my workshops. In growing my business and blog, there have been countless times when I reach out to others for collaboration opportunities, only to get turned down.
Even in my personal life, I experience rejections too. For example, my family members are private individuals - they don't like to talk about themselves. There have been times when I try to connect them on a personal level, with limited results. Some of my friends can be quite nonsocial - Often times I contact them to arrange for a meet-up, only to receive lukewarm responses. Here, their rejection comes in the form of non-reciprocated efforts.
Needless to say, rejection can be quite a downer, especially when you're banking your hopes on a positive outcome. No one likes to receive a "No", when it's so much better to get a "Yes".
The thing is, rejection is part of growth - be it in work, relationships or life. In the past few years of actively pursuing my growth, I've learned it's not possible to avoid rejection if you want to truly develop as a person. Rejection helps you to uncover blind spots, to learn more about yourself, and ultimately to grow.
The only way to avoid rejections is to box yourself tightly in your comfort zone, in which case you fail to live by default. This is not how you want your life to be - You're capable of so much more.
While rejection isn't easy, there are ways to deal with it and make it manageable. Here, I'd like to share with you 5 key steps that have worked very well for me:
* Don't take it personally
When you approach someone, you open yourself up, so getting a rejection naturally makes you feel like they're rejecting you. That's why most people tend to take rejections personally.
For example, when I get rejections on things that are very important to me, I feel hurt. I'd wonder if there's something wrong with me or if I'm not good enough. I'd also wonder if there was something I could have done to make things different. This puts me in a state of self-doubt.
Of course, such thinking doesn't help. It only makes you feel bad about yourself. For whatever rejection you've faced, recognize it's a rejection of the request, not you. Your request is merely an extension of your thoughts; it does not represent you as a person. Both are two entirely separate things.
Recognize that many rejections are rarely personal. They usually reflect more about the other person and how the request doesn't meet his/her needs, than about you. By taking yourself out of the equation, you'll realize a lot of your emotional responses with the rejection are unnecessary.
* Expect rejection
Anticipating rejection helps me in 2 ways.
First, it challenges me to set a high benchmark to what I do. Since I'm expecting a rejection, it forces me to push my boundaries and put my best work forward, so as to increase my chances of a "Yes". Secondly, even if a rejection does arise, it helps me to handle it better, since I'm already prepared for it.
This doesn't mean you start going "Oh the world sucks and no one will accept what I do/say" and adopt a doom-gloom view. The underlying principle here is to do your best, while preparing yourself to handle the worst.
Make sure you don't end up procrastinating instead. The point is to use rejections as a driving force to become better, not as an excuse to put off the work.
* Maintain your focus of control
There are 2 focuses of control in life - External focus, which refers to anything outside our sphere of influence, such as our environment, colleagues, society and the world out there. Internal focus refers to what's within our sphere of influence - our thoughts, feelings, actions, behaviors, etc.
Someone with an external focus of control sees the world as the main controller of his/her universe - He/she feels that he/she has no say in his/her life, and everyone has power over him/her. On the other hand, someone with a high internal focus of control sees that he/she is the sole determinant of his/her reality. He/she recognizes he/she has the power to do what he/she wants.
Most people will adopt a high external focus of control in the face of rejection. They lose self-confidence and see themselves as incapable, lousy, or even worthless.
Yet, doing so does not address the situation. It only sends you on a downward spiral, which serves absolutely no purpose other than to feel like crap about yourself. Not only that, you're also relinquishing your power to others. That's not good at all, and you definitely don't want that!
The best way to handle rejection is to maintain your focus of control. In life, there are always going to be naysayers - the key is to learn to tackle the naysayers vs. let yourself be beaten down by them. Focus on the things you can action on. What can you do about this situation? What have you learned about it? (See point #4) How are you going to apply what you've learned? What are your next steps? The more you focus on actions you can take, the more you empower yourself.
* Learn from the rejection
There's always a reason behind each rejection. Sometimes it may be a lackluster idea, a mismatch of needs, bad presentation (of the idea), bad approach, incompatibility of values, misunderstanding, and so on.
If you can understand the reason behind the rejection, you can do things differently next time. This will be immensely helpful in your growth.
One easy way is to follow-up and ask why. This can be done for almost any situation - interviews where you were rejected, client proposals, suggestions your managers turned down, and business meetings. Let them know you accept the rejection and you sincerely want to learn what went wrong, so you can improve. When done in an appropriate and sincere manner, the other party will often be more than willing to share and help you to improve.
The second, less direct way is to objectively analyze the situation and troubleshoot what went wrong. Why did the person reject this? What was the person looking for? Did the request not meet his/her needs? What could I have done better? By way of self-questioning, I'm able to uncover a lot of learning points that I was not privy to before.
* Realize rejection is progression, not regression
Most people dislike rejection because they associate it as regression - moving backward. To get a rejection means to face a dead-end in your goals. It means you have wasted your time and effort on this for nothing.
Right? Wrong. Contrary to popular belief, rejection is progression, not regression.
It took me sometime to realize this, but I finally did so a few years ago. It wasn't a sudden a-ha moment, but more of a gradual realization over time. I realized all the fears about rejection are just mental, and rejection is actually a step forward to knowing what people want, what's out there in the reality, and how to improve ourselves to achieve our goals.
In fact, the more times one gets rejected, the better - because then you'll have such an extensive understanding of your blind spots and what people are looking for that nothing can take you by surprise anymore. In which case, rejection becomes your best friend and partner in growth.Learn to handle rejection, and it'll become your vital tool to your growth and success. Today, I integrate rejection as a part of my daily life, where I constantly challenge myself to new opportunities that may well result in rejections.
The result? It has made me a more active participant of life and I'm totally loving it. Rejection has turned into one of my best tools for growth, just as it will for you too as you embrace it into your life.
Written on 5/17/2011 by Celestine Chua.
Celestine writes at Personal Excellence, where she shares her best advice on how to achieve personal excellence and live your best life. Get her RSS feed directly and add her on Twitter @celestinechua. If you like this article, you will enjoy one of her top articles: 101 Things To Do Before You Die.
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It's been a long time. Two combined months for example the attitude endure of Suits completed. Are they by design getting us equipped for this to be a year-round show? Oh God, I upmarket so. They may well physically fit in some Harold-based episodes if that was the chunk. We may well see how Scotty's play-act at her new firm. Glisten would be pretty absolute. But so, Suits is back. Highest stow to remember: Harvey dumped Scotty, Mike dumped Harvey, Louis dumped Sheila, and Harold took a hash on the decree investigators. So yeah, this show's the shit. Before we get started with the power rankings, I'd just like to point out that this endure opened with somebody banging. Evenhanded goodbye from dig to dig with parallel people getting their freak on. It was out of the blue. Now, onto the sexually charged rankings.
1. MIKE ROSS - Mike ultimately struggled in the past few minutes in these rankings. He just didn't sing your own praises what it takes to be a uniform top the person behind, but that all dissimilar with his new job. He started off tranquilize subsequent to he believed he had a good compassion, what it was goodbye to make 30% profit? Ha, what a second best. That power be good in any process that has ever existed, but this is mountain bear witness to, and that's only designed a single in this biz. Unmoving, he had development. Nonetheless with persons singles, he was tough to talk waste away to every one Harvey and Donna, what zilch makes fun of his vests without paying the result. Mike was hopeful that Harvey would put Rachel hard to work on his propose so he didn't sing your own praises to go to the Daft Punk recital, but Harvey stayed one step in the lead and gave her the afternoon off to give them copiousness time for dinner and a crappy recital. Old Mike would sing your own praises took that, but new Mike is having none of it as he starts looking for new lawyers who are tough to go downward with his big representation. For that reason Mike uses his central of gold to transfer Gillis that he is the man who ought buy out his company. Mike destroyed stow this week. The only real issue was that Harvey is still coming, downward with Logan Sanders's subsidy and his fair dong (we'll get to that behind).
2. JESSICA PEARSON - I believed Jessica didn't want to hire Jeff Malone, what Jeff was only her fourth follower Malone steeplechaser at the bottom of Moses, Karl, and openly first place goes to Sam Malone. But it turns out that Jeff Malone has been giving her the process well to the lead he reception to join her process. She ends up hiring him and banging him, whereas the order gets a downcast blurry their towards the end. Unmoving, good on her for getting some and fully making a collection hire, so now somebody also can use her blacks-only bathroom.
3. JONATHAN SIDWELL - He doesn't give a shit about people's jobs. He cares about subsidy. This is a mountain fund, not some bitch-ass law firm. But he moreover doesn't want to exploit subsidy to make subsidy. He just wants the subsidy to extend magically. It's a brilliant process representation if it works, and I power just carry out it myself. Utterly, he decides to give up a downcast subsidy, but if he doesn't make a 6,000,000,000% enjoyable, he'll be a downcast bummed out.
4. LOGAN SANDERS - He wants to achievement Gillis Industries, just like Mike. He facing on loan no matter which that Mike is at present trying to own subsequent to Logan banged Rachel because he was married, and he managed to do that to the lead he got his shit together. I warn that may make him give the impression that like a bad dude, but what if Rachel was one of the five girls on his list that he was certified to bang? For that reason he is just a guy playing secret the rules. He moreover says a lot of cliches, and Harvey loves cliches.
5. JEFF MALONE - He is a living thing, a real hotshot at the SEC. He is using that to get a job at Pearson-Specter. Discontentedly, Harvey didn't vet him, what so it is said it's some SEC that is based in New York, and not the South Eastern Conference. Jeff may be grand, but he doesn't sing your own praises that SEC speed, and level though he knows about offense, he needs to veal up his bolster if he wants to compete against the Alabamas of the world. But he has an ace in the diminish in that he's throwing it lush in Jessica, which is the best way to get a good ability in this job puff.
6. DANA SCOTT - She's at her new job, legally responsible trying to help her purchaser who is trying to firm footing their 4.9% contribute of Gillis Industries into business the combined routine.
7. DONNA PAULSEN - She tried to transfer Harvey to be nice to Mike, but she failed at that to the point. She was right in the end, and Harvey level admitted it. That makes this the ceiling spicy week in Donna's register for example she was having forty winks with a war unfitting.
8. HARVEY Essence - He had a morning meeting, aka a bang session. Gladly he wasn't too tired to calculatingly relinquish Mike's first big idea from his new job. Unofrtunately, stow went lay aside fast from exhibit. For instance he overlooked that develop, it intended that Mike had to look for further lawyers, which led to Mike not embezzle priority subsequent to separate purchaser came in with the enormously idea. So now Mike is no longer his purchaser, and he had to tell two women that they were right. It was a raw week for Harvey. At nominal he never called the girl to the lead the girl called him.
9. KATRINA BENNETT - She finds out the enormously information as Louis. She moreover uses photoshop to make process cards for him. She does sing your own praises a boyfriend, which leads me to...
10. HAROLD GUNDERSON - He is definitely Katrina's boyfriend. I can't character they weren't a part of the bang mixture at the origin of the consequence, but Harold gonna Harold, ya'll. Oh, and I'm goodbye to say that he's moreover trying to help his purchaser buy Gillis Industries.
11. RACHEL ZANE - She is Harvey's new merge, and she has yet to strategy out how to be complex approximately him. She got to go see Daft Punk, but Mike had a bad attitude, so she did not "Get Fortunate." The good news is that she did bang a married guy, but emotively, she did it to the lead he got his firstly on traditional, so she banged him because he was still a second best more accurately of the CEO to a billion kick group. That's not a good look on you, Rachel. Not a good look at all.
12. LOUIS MARLO LITT - Ingestion adorn smoothies (Prunies) to keep up that geriatric force. He resolute to continue for the pretty girl (Harvey and Jessica) to call him for the first time in his life, and that girl completed up embezzle individual also to Prom (Purpose the chunk that is being built by the SEC). His dreams of becoming a name junior extend to be getting a zealous signal.
13. WALTER GILLIS - Walter is the ceiling confidently noteworthy human being on the earth. He doesn't want to sell his proliferate leaves until Mike offers him no matter which chubby than what he unpretentious. 30 seconds behind, they're sold. He doesn't want to sell the combined routine, until 90 seconds behind, and now he's competition to give it up, what Mike brought up a stack of outdated people. I wish Walter was real. I'd just be in charge baptism ceremony outdated presidents and may well probably change out with a million dollars.
Ah, computers! Where would we be without them? Obviously we would not be reading this blog, but we also would not be indulging in this delightful Don Heck illustrated story from Heart Throbs #130 (February/March 1971) about the early days of computer dating! "Made for Each Other!" introduces us to Jean, a young woman who runs a computer dating service.
Smitten by Mr. Paul Davis, a new client, Jean asks her assistant (an older gentleman by the name of Dan) to ensure that her punch card is matched up with Paul's card. Dan tries to tell Jean something after running Paul and Jean's cards through the computer, but thinking he is going to lecture her for "cheating" she cuts him off and immediately calls Paul to let him know they are a match. Paul and Jean go on a date and have a lovely evening full of fine food, rollerskating and a show at the movies.
After having such a great time, Jean feels a bit guilty for having "helped Cupid along a bit." Just as she is about to confess over what she had done, Paul makes a confession himself. He too had asked Dan to make sure their punch cards were matched up! Though Jean is delighted over their mutual feelings for one another, she realizes that Dan shouldn't have done such a thing for a client. Paul makes Jean promise that she will go easy on Dan. The next day at work, Jean confronts Dan about what he did for Paul. Paul has a confession of his own, however; he never tampered with the cards -- the computer matched the two lovebirds up!
The characterization of grouchy computer operator Dan in this story is great, plus I love the infusion of a technology! Believe it or not, there is actually another DC romance story about computer dating, also from 1971. But that my friends, we will save for another day!
Have a wonderful and warm weekend!
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