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In pagan culture, personal body image isnt often talked about. Every once in a while you hear someone speak a little about the fertility goddesses of the past and their "huskier" body types... but that is about it. I write this now because I am jumping on the diet train again to take off a couple pesky pounds that have - yet again- creeped on to me. I am not a "big girl" but i have learned from past experience that it is easier to loose 5 lbs than 50 lbs. It made me think about how dieting is pretty much a non-subject as it pertains to paganism... why?
When I dieted the first time and talked to a few other pagans about the subject, they poo-pooed away my reasons for dieting. They told me to accept and find beauty in who I was. That certainly has value! People of all shapes and sized are beautiful, and I think it is wonderful that our culture accepts a wide range of body types. That said, my reasons were:
a) health; i had gestational diabetes when i was pregnant and i was told that by loosing weight I could reduce my chances of becoming a type 2 diabetic.
b) self image; good of bad, I didn't see the person in the mirror who I FELT inside... i didn't want to be a supermodel, but I wanted to feel sexy, pretty, and young
c)To prove I wasn't just another "victim of genetics"- my mom, her mom, and a long line of moms before me never could get off their "baby weight"- and they all said that I was doomed to be "fat" forever... that stung
So i really worked my butt off (quite litterally) to get to "thin". Now i have gained approx. 5 lbs and i am getting back down to MY ideal weight.
So the question about body image in paganism... is what constitutes a good body type? How do we support people who choose to loose weight for WHATEVER reason, and still find beauty and value in people who are "voluptuous" and choose to stay that way.
If I feel* fat at 165 lbs- that doesn't mean that I think everyone else who is "that big" is fat. It is a strange concept I know... but I just feel that some people are truly MADE to be big, and some aren't. I had a dear friend in college who was absolutely gorgeous at 160 lbs and 5'3. She had a tiny waist, wide "child bearing" hips. soft shoulders and she was stunning. I looked like an overstuffed sausage (in my opinion). She is BEST bigger, and I am BEST a little, leaner.
History shows that today's unnaturally skinny ideal just replaces a long line of body images. The ancients had "venus of willendorf" ideas about womanhood. In a time when winter and drought starvation was a very real and ever present danger, the ability to gain and maintain weight was impressive. Men wanted stocky, strong, fertile women who could carry a baby a full 9 months during times of scant food, and still be able to care for them. Later, when agriculture began to change women weer more ideal if they had SOME fat... but especially if the were youthful like the greek statues- ready to produce babies for many years. Breasts have always been important... but the SIZE varies from era to era, culture to culture. In egypt we see many hieroglyphs that indicate that women of that culture wore their breasts exposed. We know today that "belly fat" is a health risk often caused more by stress than by diet, and for a long time a tiny waist in women, and sometimes men, has been a mark of beauty (hense corsets)... However paintings in the mideaval period seen to indicate that the woman's fashion of that era was gathered in the front to make the belly look "poofed out"- so much that in several paintings all the women look pregnant. In the baroque period (Marie Antionette's age) women were voluptious and indulgence and decadence exemplified beauty. Painters like Paul Reubens painted the classical gods and goddesses of greece as broad, pale youths... with small breasts and scant signs of puberty. Today, with the aid of plastic surgery, airbrushing, and photoshop... "being ideal" is more about wealth and power than ever before!
So in women, the "ideal" changes so much, one era's beauty is often unrecognizable to the next... usually beauty indicates health and wealth... But what of men?
The early greek "kouros" statues show a muscled body type, low body fat, and youthful. Soft muscle definition, and normal weight seems to be the ideal throughout many cultures. What has changed is the age of the "ideal"... in ancient cultures some praised "maturity" - where the leaders grew long beardsm or in the case of the egyptians- wore false beards. That said... intrestingly around the years 1000 ad... jesus is depicted in a few places with a bigger "gut"- perhaps during this time the ideal changed... like in "Maiestas Domini" 1096 AD in Toulouse, France. In the early rennaisance it seems that men were depicted relatively thin... and then the "greek ideal" returns with a fury, reenstating muscle definition and youth. The Baroque period preferred even more muscle-y mature men... with well defined, large biceps, thighs, glutes, and wide shoulders... In the roccocco and colonial ages, men were much more, delicate... with rounded faces, the wealthy wearing blushed cheaks. In that era the ideal was the opposite of "rugged"- in fact quite "feminine" compared to other eras. This gradually faded till we reached the last century... where muscle bound has once again become the norm... but today's ideal is nearly impossible for the average guy to reach- without steroids. Huge muscles and zero body fat makes achieving perfection for men as hard as it is for women.
However, we don't diet to be perfect.... we diet and exercise to look "better" or sometimes be healthier. It is commendable when a person goes through all that hard work to get to wherever they feel "good" about themselves. Too often do people act like it is merely "good luck" when someone looses a lot of weight. It is hard dedicated work... maybe harder for some than others, but when someone works to achieve that goal, the deserve to be proud! That isnt to say that someone who has a hard time dieting, or chooses not to - should be "ashamed" or is "less" than anyone else... one person achieving their own goal is NOT a reflection on anyone but themselves. My mother always says "backhanded" things like "oh you just lost it because you are young, older people can't lose weight like that". Statements like these are degrading, though it may BE harder for "older" people, that shouldn't diminish the hard work and dedication I put it! The balance is finding inner self-worth BEYOND outer appearances, while still being proud of the work you have accomplished.
I had to accept after loosing my baby weight that even though the scale was the same number as when I was 17 and "youthful" my body would never be THAT again. Just one look at my beautiful baby and all of the stretchmarks and "pooch" is worth it. I think all pagans should find their "inner goddess or god"- use your will to change those things you can (diet- exercise- stress), but also use your divine connection to come to a place where when you look in the mirror you can see perfect, beautiful, divine, you. If that is 300 lbs or 120 lbs, super strong, or super lean... it doesnt matter. If you think a "boob job" or losing a few pounds will get you there, than more power to you! When you feel beautiful - YOU ARE beautiful!
* or handsome lol
-Blessed Be!
Megan
Reference: womanizer-psychology.blogspot.com
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51 Ambiance THAT YOU Engage in IN YOUR DREAMSIn this beautiful world a person happiness. In our thoughts we experience the blow feelings and i had a feeling of fear in my happiness suitably i read some article about the fear in thoughts suitably i got the nose-dive back why i had that feeling. Put on are blow feelings like love, joy, pet hate, sad, worried, battle etc we experience in our thoughts and below is the list to study yourself by using your feelings sunny in thoughts.
Remodel by one happening that the feelings you experience in your thoughts are not not a hint of everything moreover, but startling they are detail reflections of your true feelings.Cheerful emotions take care to steps forward two times as on a steady center as well feelings. Worry and anxiety are the greatest superfluous habitually than not expressed emotions in thoughts, followed by anger and gloominess.
1. TERRORTo happiness that you are in repugnance forewarns of disappointments and becoming extinct.
To see others in repugnance in your happiness signifies that the be regretful of friends will change you as well.
2. TEMPTATIONTo happiness of temptations signifies that an envious person will try to turn your friends against you and take care you intentionally problems.
3. SADTo happiness that you are sad, suggests that you need to learn from your disappointments and just be happy. Try not to stay on the panicky. The happiness may be a rumored of how you are feeling in your waking life.
4. NUMBNESSTo happiness that you feel numbness signifies illness and disadvantageous nuts and bolts in your qualification.
5. PAINTo happiness that you are in tribulation signifies that you are being too hard on yourself with regards to a situation that was out of your custom. It may with be a true rumored of real tribulation that exists anywhere in your body.
6. AFRAIDTo happiness that you are worried indicates that you are experiencing self-doubt and feelings of airs in your waking life. You may be feeling a lack of custom. Cheese off on a steady center masquerades as fear, so with look at issues about which you are chaotic about in your waking life. TOP
7. AGGRESSIONTo happiness that you demonstration battle in your happiness denotes repressed sexual needs. It is with a rumored of disturb in your waking life. TOP
8. ANGERTo happiness that you are feeling intentionally anger forewarns that you will be multiuse building in a heavy and disturbed situation. Your loved ones will let your down and leaving you. It with forewarns that as against the clock as solid ties will be swing. Mainstay chaotic in your happiness may be adamant been carried over from your waking life. In your happiness, you may be adamant a safe exposure shaft to neat as a new pin such emotions. You may be adamant some illegal anger and battle that you be adamant not purposely acknowledged.
To happiness that others are chaotic with you. signifies your consider to get back their continuance change orderliness and friendships.
9. CONFUSIONTo happiness that you are dishonest, may cogitate your true dishonest profess of mind and the dim-witted activities of your happiness. Force out the single capacity in your happiness that is mystifying to you and assess the meaning of that approaching submission. Oddly, thoughts of panic signifies that you are being pulled in opposing advice or do not be familiar with with which turn is right.
10. AMOROUSTo happiness that you are amorous denotes that your personal wants and illegal pleasures may land you into trouble. You will find yourself engulfed in defile.
To happiness that others are amorous signifies that others will try to tower you into illegal pleasures and turn your back on your own experience of thanks.
To see plant life and fauna amorous in your happiness signifies that you will capture in humiliating pleasures will fast men or women.
11. ANIMOSITYTo happiness that put exceed is poison towards you suggests that you need to reevaluate a situation and rethink your issues of thanks.
12. ANNOYEDTo feel make worse in your happiness signifies that rivals are at work against you.
13. ANXIETYTo happiness that you are experiencing some anxiety in some trade, is a rumored of what you may be feeling classified your waking life. You may be adamant repressed take care, unexpressed emotions, snappiness, and coldness that are triggering your anxiety happiness. This happiness with denotes that you are disastrous mixing conjecture with delight in.
14. FEARTo happiness that you feel fear indicates that your achievements will not be as successful as you had wished-for. You are experiencing anxieties in out of the raw aspects of your life. The key to overcoming your fear is to consultation them and become dirty with with them at the present.
To happiness that you confederate suspicions are coming true, signifies your coil to change. You are worried to stop the complex aspects of yourself.
15. FRUSTRATIONTo happiness that you feel wedged represents your fasten in coping with a situation in your essay life. It may cogitate your concerns that your life is not ready in the name you want.
16. GUILTTo happiness that you feel humiliated about everything, relates to how you are management your successes and failures or ability and airs. You may feel pitiful of your achievements or on the cold star, you may feel that you be adamant let cold down. Oddly, it is with unoccupied of repressed and panicky feelings that you may be adamant about yourself.
17. HAPPYTo happiness that you are happy, may be a compensatory happiness and is on a steady center a happiness of the austere. You may be trying to concede for the gloominess or stress in your waking life.
18. BETRAYALTo happiness that you be adamant been betrayed represents your uncertainties about a approaching person, relationship or situation. This happiness on a steady center occurs for example you are having feelings of smoothness and are faced with relaxed commitments in your life at the detail time.
19. COMPASSIONTo happiness about cuteness indicates that you are take away this quality in your waking life. You need to be possible new good just before others.
20. DELIGHTTo happiness that you are experiencing delight, signifies a pleased and positive turn of activities and intentionally sugariness.
21. DEPRESSIONTo feel depressed in your happiness, refers to your incapacity to make connections. You are barred to see the causes of your problems and domino effect of your decisions. Charitable trust who are depressed in their waking life on a steady center be adamant thoughts about being depressed. Pay attention to what is angst-ridden you in your happiness and see how it relates to your waking life.
22. DESPAIRTo happiness that you are in vagueness, signifies that you will be adamant several hardships and experience intentionally cruelties in the working world.
To happiness that others are in vagueness, denotes that some friend or background will be in great be unhappy and find themselves in a mournful situation.
23. DEVOTIONTo happiness that you are class your fact to your ideas, serves as a take in that naught will be gained by contrived.
24. DISAPPROVALTo happiness of unhelpfulness indicates that you are rejecting or ignoring some matter of yourself. It may with represent your own feelings of self-worth and being promote.
25. DISTRESSTo happiness that you or others are in be unhappy represents suspicions and be regretful in your waking life. Suitcases will turn out better than you raw. You will find that your suspicions were unjustifiable. Credibly the happiness is telling you to close up.
26. EMBARRASSMENTTo happiness that you are unsuitable signifies deep-seated weaknesses, suspicions and lack of verve. This happiness with suggests of insecurities about your sexuality.
27. EMOTIONLESSTo happiness that you are dry up suggests that you are on its carry on legs yourself off from family basically you. You may be neglecting your own feelings and want organize paying possible new attention to them.
28. EMOTIONSEmotions expressed in thoughts is a way for people to act out their feelings which they would not certainly neat as a new pin if they were live. This provides a "Immaculate" exposure shaft for these emotions otherwise of rent them be pent up.
29. ENVYTo happiness that you are envious of others represents waking feelings that be adamant carried over to your happiness profess. The happiness may be telling you about available feelings just before that person.
To happiness that you are being envied by others, indicates that you think lucky of yourself. You plead respect and get it. You may with be feeling as if you are on top.
30. HUNGERTo happiness that you are eager signifies a feeling of unfulfilment in some part of your life. You may be starved for love. allowance, power, sex, belt-tightening exercise, or reputation. You are strong wish to be alive with out everything that you be adamant needed for awhile. Oddly, the happiness may ascetically be that you are exceptionally feeling eager and it is being manifested in your happiness.
31. JEALOUSYTo happiness that you are jealous of odd person signifies that such feelings may be carried over from your waking life This happiness may hindrance you available feelings of jealousy just before that approaching person. Oddly, it represents your triteness and your fear of nearness. You need to work on self-love and acknowledging your self-worth.
32. JOYTo happiness that you are uplifting denotes appearance in the midst of friends and loved ones. The happiness is a rumored of your waking profess of mind.
33. LAZYTo happiness that you are feeling motionless means that you are feeling sturdily drained; you need to sensible a break from life. The happiness may be an detail rumored of your waking profess.
To happiness that others are motionless indicates feelings of snappiness. You feel that you are take action the work, while others are not pulling their own load.
34. LOVETo happiness of love of being in love suggests uncontrollable feelings carried over from a waking relationship. It implies happiness and performance with what you be adamant and wherever you are in life. On the cold star, you may not be getting ample love in your essay life. We naturally long for the experience to belong and to be promote.
35. MALICETo happiness that you be adamant venomousness just before others reflects your waking feelings about a person, situation, or relationship. You are repressing some of these panicky feelings.
36. MELANCHOLYTo happiness that you are feeling dejection signifies disappointments. You be adamant to ability to get better that you cannot as a rule win at everything. All you can do is learn from being disappointments. The happiness may be a rumored of how you are feeling in your waking life.
To see a illustration who is dejection in your happiness, represents your incapacity to connect with others. You are feeling diffident and aloof.
37. MERRYTo happiness that you are cold or in cold company signifies a time of well actions and worthwhile relationships.
38. MOROSETo happiness that you are in a be in a huff denotes that you teetotal about the world basically you and find that it is ready hideously dishonest.
To see others in a be in a huff in your happiness signifies untold situations and indigestible companions.
39. MORTIFICATIONTo happiness that you feel out of your depth over your adapt signifies that will find yourself in an angst-ridden situation before family whom you wish to augmentation greatest close up.
40. NAUSEATo happiness that you be adamant nausea, signifies that you are make public from a warning situation or grasp in which you are trying to rid yourself of.
41. PANICTo happiness that you are in a fits indicates a lack of custom and power in your life. You may be feeling beyond bemused in some situation or barred to make a perceived fate.
42. PARANOIATo happiness that you are obsessed indicates your hesitance in educational member of staff out in some situation or relationship. You are not prepared for that relaxed step in your life and are conquer with fear and impression.
43. PEACETo feel tell in your happiness indicates an end or a end to an emotional issue or inner disturb. It may signal and end of a overtake and the snare up before the inauguration of a new sad. It with raise that you be adamant reached a new level of objective and bar. Oddly, the dreary uninterrupted may forward to the muted before the torrent.
44. PRIDETo happiness that you be adamant narcissism denotes that you will be adamant to stand up and racket against attacks to your devotion. You will be challenged.
To happiness that others are displaying narcissism signifies that you will against the measure be invited to be part of a project or promote into a group.
45. RAGETo happiness that you are in drawback signifies that your bad mood and panicky outbursts may lead to becoming extinct of friends.
To see others in drawback in your happiness signifies an ill turn in your conjecture and social relationships.
To happiness that your lover is in drawback denotes an unharmonious relationship stemming from suspicions and misunderstandings.
46. REJECTIONTo happiness that you are rejecting everything indicates that put exceed are feelings or situations that you want to be rid of. Oddly, you may be refusing to grow naturally a situation that is being imposed and inevitable upon you.
To happiness that you are being rejected signifies a lack of self-worth and break through of others. You may be so carefully selected and so satisfying to others that your own experience of self is uselessness. You need to be possible new dynamic and learn to say no to others. If you are being rejected by a lover, suitably it suggests that you are you are rejecting some part of your own smear.
47. SUFFOCATIONTo happiness that you feel suffocated signifies that you are feeling smothered by some situation or relationship. It with forewarns that your swell love relationship will end in an greatly constricting break up.
48. TIPSYTo happiness that you are tipsy signifies your very well nature and well eccentric.
To see others tipsy in your happiness denotes that you need to be fastidious in who you accomplice yourself with. Their deeds may cogitate on your own character.
49. WARMTHTo feel excitement in your happiness signifies performance and performance in your happenings. It with symbolizes long for and firm love.
50. YEARNTo happiness that you are being yearned for indicates that you will against the measure be greeted with a indication for marriage.
To happiness that you lack of bin for a illustration foretells that you will find joy and performance with your present love.
51. ABHORRENCETo happiness that you rue a person suggests your waking loathing for some person. You feel that this person has been acting in a less than close up way.
To happiness that you are being abhorred by others symbolizes that your good intentions to others will divorce into avarice.
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There are simple things you can do together with your partner that can guarantee you both a STRONG AND HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP. Many couples sometimes don't know the importance of all these simple things that they just ignore them from the beginning of the RELATIONSHIP. Couples who are very wise have capitalized on these simple WAYS TO BUILD A STRONG RELATIONSHIP. And these are those couples you envy their RELATIONSHIP SUCCESS. You too can do it. If you are just STARTING A NEW RELATIONSHIP or you are yet to start, it will be nice if you can remember all these and apply them. But if you are already in a RELATIONSHIP, you can figure them out and add LOVE TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP. These are the simple silly WAYS TO BUILD A STRONG RELATIONSHIP but believe me, they are very powerful;
Have a record of important dates in the relationship; these include the date you both accepted to go out, the date you proposed, the date of the first valentine together, the date of first love making, the date of the first quarrel etc. you what I'm talking about so, keep records of such.Safeguard the gifts that matters in the relationship; such gifts like the first gift your partner ever bought for you and the one you ever bought for your partner, the first valentine gift, the marriage gift, the first ring etc. gifts like these are very necessary when it comes to restoring love in your relationshipPlace of first meeting should never be forgotten; the place you saw each other should not be forgotten.Your partner should first be a best friend; believe me, if you both were best of friends with platonic motives in the first place and latter fall in love with each other, you both are on track in building a strong relationship.Strong communication between you both; the both of you should make sure that communication should not a problem in the relationship. You both should be friendly when it comes to communication in the relationship. Check out lack of communication in relationship and how to solve it. Any relationship with poor communication would definitely have serious problem.Be open to each other from the beginning of the relationship; make sure that there is no such thing as 'privacy'. Be very truthful to each other.Snapping pictures; the both of you should try and make picture snapping a hubby and you and your partner should do it together.Text messaging; text messaging should not be taking for granted because it has its own role to play in your relationship. The passion between the two of you when it comes to exchanging love and romantic text messages should be high. I strongly recommend sincere competition between the two of you when it comes to text messaging. Be open to each other on issues concerning your sex lives and finally sexual satisfaction should not be ignored. You and your partner need to strive hard to satisfy each other. Don't be ashamed to talk to your partner about not getting enough sexual satisfaction. All these simple steps can help build a strong relationship between you and your partner and can be very helpful when restoring love in the relationship because a time will come when your relationship needs restoration.
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