Status Symbols

One of my friends, a well practiced amateur swindler, has become expertly versed in the manipulation of cognitive associations to con his prospects into thinking he's far more rich/famous/powerful than he really is. His method is based on peacocking and he has recently enlightened me on some of his more promising tactics. I share them with you, in the hopes that they will grant you equal amounts of poon. After directly witnessing his antics in both cold hunts and social circles, I must admit, he has changed my opinion on lying. Previously I had thought it was unnecessary if your game was tight enough, but after seeing how drastically more efficient his game is because of it, I have come to realize that lying is a far too easy and powerful option to ignore; at least for those men not interested in long-term relationships and willing to traverse through morally hazy grounds. It is especially useful for quickly scaling up the quality of girls you're dating. (1) Holding a book: Head to Barnes and Nobles and pick up one of their glossy leather bound classics. Get something very well known, but not commonly read. The Divine Comedy, or the collection of Dickens' novels will work wonders. Sparknote it so you don't sound like a complete dumbass in case she HAS read it or knows something of it. The biggest advantage of this isn't that you come off as more intelligent, but that it eliminates the "creepy guy" vibe fatal to so many direct game approaches. People who read books, especially intelligent books, are perceived as far less likely to be psycho murderers. I say leather bound decorated classic because a raggedy old book will draw less attention, and with a kindle, she only knows that you "read," not that you're reading a classic. The point is to stand out, in a subtle manner, and a kindle is far too much of a common accessory. A classic will work better than a philosophy or science book, as the goal is to come off as artistic and interesting, not nerdy or over-analyzing (unless you're in an area more tailored to that sort of game). (2) Fancy water: Think Voss or Fiji. Fill the bottles up with tap water afterwards, and keep em cold so air bubbles don't give away your charade. There's something about the aesthetically inventive design of artesian water that gives your presence a more refined edge and aura. People around you tend to think, "oh shit, boss" because you spent an extra 2 buying a cylinder shaped brand-name bottle than an eco friendly Poland spring one. However, keep away from environmentally obsessed green chicks. This could be a deal-breaker for them. (3) Engagement ring: Goes back to taking advantage of pre-selection and hypergamy, a point I stressed in ONLINE DATING. There's two ways this could play out. If you're with a girl who goes through with it aggressively the entire time, you're in the clear. If you're with a girl who you think is going to show last minute resistance because of the ring, flip the script. Suddenly tell her "you're right I don't know what I was thinking," talk about it for a bit, let it heat up, escalate Kino, then go for it again. The LMR is a shit test. If she's already come this far, obviously your marital status is not of concern to her. Pulling back a little can also be helpful in the first scenario, and possibly push a girl to be far more eager in pleasuring you by adding an essence of competition. (4) Gun: Legal matters should be taken into consideration, but yes, a gun will give you a near mystical aura. A threatening vibe is an Alpha vibe, even pissed off betas come off as momentarily Alpha if they can avoid the "immature tantrum" label. And what's more threatening than a gun? This is likely the key peacocking tool used by members of the Hezbollah and other clubs of similar interest. This should be reserved for after you guys have already established an intimate relationship; otherwise we go back to the creepy psycho killer vibe. (5) Cigars: Three things are required for this. First, a general knowledge over cigars. I promise, some other cigar enthusiast will ask you "what are you smoking?" to which you shouldn't reply "A cigar." Second, how to smoke em smoothly. Know how to cut em, gut em, choose em, the whole 9 yards. And finally, when to pull em out without coming off as a pretentious prick. That last one might take a bit of practice. You can't head out of a bar for a smoke and while everyone else pulls out a Marlboro, you pull out a Cuban. (6) Cuff Links: Take me on faith for this one, buy cufflinks from Tiffany's. (7) Torch flame lighter: If you smoke cigarettes. For added effect, buy a colored flame lighter. Possibly one of the best ways to get free approach opportunities, everyone's willing to talk while they're smoking. It can also be used as a minor way of bouncing or locking down ("come out for a smoke with me"). (8) Custom pictured credit card: This has to be his most borderline stupid-genius idea. His credit card is one of those where you are allowed to design it with a custom image, so he makes it look like a generic "black card" sort of thing. How women are so easily boggled by the slightest value cues would amaze anyone. (9) Champagne in cooler: To avoid having to F-close at home. God forbid he actually took a girl to his apartment, she would immediately see the incongruity of him being a James Bondesque character; and Fapjuice blasted all across the bathroom ceiling in a Jackson Pollock type design, piss stains in the carpet synthesizing with moss to blossom into pisshrooms, and stacks of cam videos with exes. So instead, he takes her to his car (A pre-owned Benz, which remember, will still out game a brand new Accord) and pulls a champagne cooler out. (10) Take everything straight: Caters to the tendency of people to associate taking things straight, from liquor to coffee, to being more Gung-ho. But if you're really not, sneak your drink into the bathroom and slip a chaser or some milk and sugar in there and then drink it at ease to look like you were bred to stomach things that would make lesser men cringe. Note, you must already be proficient in all aspects of external game, from frame control to approach anxiety, to pull this shit off. A girl will assume that if you ARE a high value male that you will ACT like one. You must be able to fluidly reinforce an attitude that remains congruent with your perceived status. If you ever lose congruity, embrace it rather than trying to recover from it by backpedalling or explaining it. Morph the script into something new and yet still congruent. I e; if she does see your apartment and you're living in the basement of a harem, say you just came out of a divorce and your wife took all your shit or the IRS recently took all your belongings because you've been evading taxes since you were 13, instead of trying to justify a strange taste for living in basements; With this higher standard though, comes more leeway. When you begin ACTING like someone else, and people acknowledge you as that new person, you grow "artificial" - but also real - confidence. It would be like playing out a role in a mask, you lose touch with yourself and adopt a new personality, hence, it becomes EASIER to act congruent. You lose conscious awareness of your other weaknesses and your more "real" self. It goes back to method acting being a viable way for CHANGING ONESELF.

The 26Th Annual Rendez Vous Du Cinma Qubcois February 17 To 27 In Montreal

"Tonight inscription the opening of the Rendez-vous du cin'ema qu'eb'ecois, the annual festival of Qu'ebec films. The opening spurt is an invitation-only do presentation of "LA DERNI`ERE FUGUE" ("THE PERSIST FUGUE") directed by L'ea Series. The spurt is an modification of Gil Courtemanche's astonishing "UNE BELLE MORT" ("A Acceptable Hammering)" by moreover the playwright and director, and includes a number of comedians in its cast of Jacques Godin, Andr'ee Lachapelle, Yves Jacques, Benoit Gouin, Isabelle Miquelon, Marie-France Lambert, and Alyosha Schneider. The becoming extinct spurt will be Robert Morin's "LE ASSESS D'UN COOP'ERANT" ("THE RECORD OF AN AID PLOD") which was filmed in Burundi.Oodles of the films being not worth it were put away just yesterday for Jutra Awards, as well as "D'ED'E `A TRAVERS LES BRUMES" ("D'ED'E OPEN THE MISTS"), "GRANDE OURSE - LA CL'E DES POSSIBLES" ("MASTER KEY"), "POLYTECHNIQUE", "J'AI TU'E MA POND" ("I KILLED MY CLOSE RELATIVE"), "JE ME SOUVIENS" ("I RELIVE"), "LES DOIGTS CROCHES" ("AWRY FINGERS"), "DE P`ERE EN FLIC" ("INITIATION AND ARMS"), "LA ALLOWANCE" ("THE GIFT"), "5150, RUE DES ORMES" ("5150 ELM'S WAY"), and "LOST ODE". The graceful and crucial "Lost Ode "was a conqueror of the Note down Canadian Emboss Develop respect at the Toronto Corporation Develop Souk everyplace it premiered in 2008.Not all of the films are in French, up till now. English-language titles contain "KINDLINESS AND SAVAGERY", a captivating romance set in Ireland; "THE CRAZY GO AFTER", a fun and very agreeable look at live action role-playing (LARPING); "THE TIMEKEEPER", based on Trevor Ferguson's 1995 novel; and the indie comedy "WHO IS KK DOWNEY? "Takako Miyahira's "LOOKING FOR ANNE" is English and Japanese. English documentaries to watch for contain the entrancing "TAQWACORE: LA NAISSANCE DE L'ISLAM PUNK" ("TAQWACORE: THE BEGINNING OF PUNK ISLAM") and the in-depth scrutiny of the tragedy in Alberta's tar sands, "H2OIL"."LE DERNIER Welcome" ("PERSIST WELCOME CITIZEN") is a Chinese-language documentary about refugee personnel by Montreal-based Lixin Fan. His spurt won top prizes at the first three spurt festivals everyplace it played, as well as the big cheese of documentary festivals, the Corporation Documentary Develop Souk Amsterdam (IDFA). Result for my review neighboring week, yet to be its Ontario rescue date. "KAKALAKKUVIK "("L`a O`u SONT REST'eS LES ENFANTS/WHERE THE Dwell on Put off") is a forceful first-person documentary by Jobie Weetaluktuk in Inuktitut, and relates his generation's alarming experience with built-up schools in Nunavik, the Inuit constituency of northern Quebec.Oodles of the inadequate films cuddle no chat at all. "DANSE TERRIFYING" and "TUNGIJUQ "are two beautiful and etched in your mind films that join wonderful imagery with clearly and music. English-language inadequate films to look for contain the "DAY BEFORE YESTERDAY", a macabre but unhappy likeness of a woman without a past; "CONNECTING RELATIVES", everyplace a warm settlement doesn't go straight as planned; "DEPLETED BITS AND PIECES", about a man handling with the dying of his parents; and the comic "EMPEROR ANIMAL PROTEIN".English-Canadian filmmakers can only covetousness the level of success that Quebec films and filmmakers cuddle achieved. As well as out of bed chief prizes (E.G. THE OSCAR FOR NOTE DOWN ECCENTRIC CONVERSATION DEVELOP, FOR "LES INVASIONS BARBARES"), their films are watched and longed-for by their mutual. Quebeckers cuddle a love and respect for their artists that English-Canadians frankly do not. It seems we Anglos cuddle acquired a shocking submissiveness make contacts from unbearable so furthest American delicacy that we cannot sensation that our artists are any good until they get excuse abroad. After they do get that excuse, we accuse them of selling out.In any training, Quebec cinema has a level of artistry, quality and confidence that far exceeds its small colonize. They are making some of the best movies in the world right now. You necessitate with conviction try to see some of these films if you haven't rather than.For bigger information, go to www.rvcq.com (French only)

Requisite Variety

At the wager of being labelled an NLP nerd, here is no matter which called the Law of Central Assortment, which (like so a lot in addition) doesn't birth in NLP but is on loan (from the field of cybernetics). We like it so a lot we've built it into the key assumptions (the pretty magnificently named NLP Presuppositions) that NLP rests upon. Put in its purest form the law states that the terminated the have some bearing on system of a item can be on the same wavelength the corpulent the assess of irresolution in the performance of the item it can get along with. This is bewilder to say the negligible (smooth as glass for nerds) so it is customarily reinterpreted for NLP line as the person in a group with the greatest elasticity of behaviour will consider the greatest right to be heard on the group. Genteel trainers will avoid telling you that the NLP Presuppositions are true, they will tell you they are useful, which ruse they build up a constructive mindset at the same time as you are using NLP and whether or not you accept some or all and establish them as part of your life's philosophy is morally up to you. The NLP clarification of the law has one very clear application which is to build up NLP practitioners to metamorphose on their own elasticity at the same time as under attack to build an effective working relationship with self.

Here is atypical application which I think is incredibly fundamental. In seeking the elasticity of behaviour I may need to equal self it is doable that I may need to brawl NLP itself. This, in my opinion, is what prevents NLP becoming a whim. Decent at its extract it contains the risk that it is accessory or almost certainly immoral. Fantasy knows I've encountered a few people who good opinion the models and techniques of NLP as if they were superhuman writ, and normally that seems to be a stage in their learning persist, but without the law of stitching generate I fear here would be no succeeding step in the learning and NLP would become (terminated) set and dictatorial and less effective as a base.

Los Angeles Teacher Arrests After Miramonte Scandal A Slew Of Arrests And Charges

This is an article that discusses since the Miramonte school scandal that six more teachers or teachers aids were charged with lewd or unlawful sex in LA. What is scary is that pedophiles have always tried to work or volunteer at positions that give them access to children. I can guarantee that for generations teachers or school workers who are pedophiles got away with what they were doing. Teachers have always been held in the highest esteem. To be honest rightfully so. They are an integral part of our children's lives. They are helping to shape the next generation. They should be held in high esteem it is these predatory teacher's or school workers that are affecting the reputation of good teachers. This fear can also lead parents and students to not trust teachers. I am glad that these pedophiles are getting caught we just need to figure out how to help children. www.taalk.org is a great program that helps to educate on child sexual abuse and has trainings on how to prevent children from becoming sexually abused.

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"OUR HOPE IS THAT OUR COMMUNITIES PROVIDE INFORMATION UNIQUE TO YOUR ROLE IN A CHILD'S LIFE. OUR GOAL IS TO TEACH YOU TO BETTER PROTECT CHILDREN, PROVIDE AN OPPORTUNITY TO INTERACT WITH AND SUPPORT OTHERS IN SIMILAR ROLES, AND INSPIRE YOU TO PUT AN END TO THE PASSIVE ACCEPTANCE OF THIS HORRIBLE EPIDEMIC. CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE IS A COMMUNITY PROBLEM BUT CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE PREVENTION" IS A PERSONAL DECISION. WITH A LITTLE EFFORT, YOU CAN SAVE A CHILD.

"PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO VISIT ONE OR MORE OF OUR COMMUNITIES AND MAKE A DECISION TO ACTIVELY PARTICIPATE IN ALL THAT THE COMMUNITY OFFERS. "I agree with them helping to rid the world of child sexual abuse is a personal decision and takes a whole community to help stop. I hope that this program gets picked up in more communities. The more community members including, children, parents, teachers, etc. The more that is known about how to help prevent child sexual abuse the less likely a child is to have to experience/suffer this horrible life changing assault. The more children learn what is appropriate and what isn't the better. And the more child sexual predators know that people are talking about what they do and trying to prevent it hopefully they will be able to learn that their attraction to children is not okay, it is not normal or acceptable. Thank you TAALK for being part of educating on this terrible epidemic and helping fight against the normalization of pedophilia. With gratitude, Rosie

THE HUFFINGTON POST Anna Almendrala First Posted: 03/ 1/2012 6:48 pm Updated: 03/ 1/2012 8:15 pm After former Miramonte Elementary teacher Mark Berndt was charged with lewd acts upon 23 children, Los Angeles Unified was hit with a torrent of complaints about other teachers and staffers across the district.

These new allegations ranged from "child annoyance" to serious sexual misconduct and, to date, have resulted in charges of lewd acts or unlawful sex being filed against six other district employees. The 2011 arrest of one teacher for lewd acts was also recently made public after the Miramonte scandal broke.

The Huffington Post has learned the names and schools of five more teachers or teacher's aides across the district that have been "housed" (removed to a non-teaching setting) while authorities investigate complaints about their conduct. They don't face criminal charges, are still technically employed by the district and are entitled to due process before the school board seeks dismissal.

These "housed" instructors include Hamilton High School music teacher Vance Miller, who is currently being sued by former students who claim to have engaged in sexual intercourse with him while in high school.

The increase in accusations reflects a "hyper-vigilant" school community that has become more attune to questionable behavior -- not an uptick in abuse, LA Unified mental health and crisis counseling services director Pia Escudero explained to the "Los Angeles Times".

LA Unified Superintendent John Deasy has taken sweeping measures in response to district-wide sex abuse charges. After charges of lewd acts were filed against Miramonte teachers Mark Berndt and another teacher, Martin Springer, Deasy replaced the entire staff at the elementary school.

Deasy has also ordered all schools to submit or re-submit every complaint of teacher misconduct to the California Commission on Teacher Credentialing dating back four years, reports KPCC. He did this in response to the credentialing commission's evaluation that the LAUSD broke the law by waiting one year to report the reason for Berndt's termination in 2011. State laws require school districts to report terminations due to teacher misconduct within 30 days, notes the Daily News.

Deasy is also challenging the teachers' unions to make a change in the teacher contract that may potentially be shielding abusers, reports the "Los Angeles Times". A little-known clause currently calls for the purging of misconduct reports after four years if the accusations go unproven. Deasy would eliminate that clause to make it easier for administrators to spot problem teachers.

"As investigations and charges filed against LA Unified staffers develop, we will continue to update this information. "

Corey Hogan of George Washington Preparatory High School1 of 9PLAYFULLSCREENZOOMSHARE THIS SLIDE STAFF POSITION: Band director

ARREST DATE: Monday, February 27

ACCUSED OF: Having sex with a 17-year-old teen on the Dantzler Prep Charter School's dance team. The teen and her mother went to the Hawthorne police and reported the incident, which allegedly occurred last September.

Investigators say that Hogan befriended the teen and drove her and some friends to their homes after a football game. After everyone else had been dropped off, the teen went to Hogan's home to have sex with him.

CURRENT STATUS: Hogan was out on 100,000 bail soon after he was arrested. His scheduled to make his first court appearance on April 9.

Gabriela Cortez of Roosevelt High School2 of 9PLAYFULLSCREENZOOMSHARE THIS SLIDE STAFF POSITION: Spanish Teacher

ARREST DATE: Wednesday, February 22

ACCUSED OF: Having unlawful sex with two male students. One of the students, now an adult, approached Montebello police in early February because his conscience was bothering him, reports the "Associated Press".

The investigation revealed a second victim, who has also since graduated.

CURRENT STATUS: Cortez was released on 140,000 bail and placed on administrative leave from her job. Her first court date is scheduled for March 22.

Jose Rosario Alvarez at Francis Polytechnic High School3 of 9PLAYFULLSCREENZOOMSHARE THIS SLIDE STAFF POSITION: Athletic Assistant

ARREST DATE: Wednesday, February 22

ACCUSED OF: Having sex with a 16-year-old student who attends another school in the Los Angeles Unified district. Police were alerted to the relationship in early February and found inappropriate contact between the two both over the internet and in person. Watch CBS2's video report from the night after his arrest.

CURRENT STATUS: The day after his arrest, Alvarez was released on 20,000 bond. He is scheduled to appear in court on March 15.

The school district has said that Alvarez will not have contact with students while the investigation is pending, reports the Associa

Alain Salas at Fremont High School4 of 9View more videos at: http://nbclosangeles.com.PLAY

SHARE THIS SLIDE STAFF POSITION: Teacher's Aide

ARREST DATE: Monday, February 13

ACCUSED OF: 3 counts of lewd acts and 1 count of contacting a minor for a sexual offense, according to the Associated Press.

The FBI says that a 15-year-old student is the victim.

CURRENT STATUS: Salas was released on bail on the 16th. He pled not guilty when he appeared in court a few days after he was arrested.

He's set to appear in court again on March 9.Paul Adame of Germain Street Elementary School5 of 9PLAYFULLSCREENZOOMSHARE THIS SLIDE STAFF POSITION: Janitor

ARREST DATE: Monday, February 6

ACCUSED OF: Committing a lewd act with a child on school campus.

CURRENT STATUS: Adame was booked and released on 100,000 bail.

In the past, he has been arrested for grand theft auto and other offenses, but he has only ever been convicted of "driving without an owner's consent," reports Chatsworth Patch.

He has been pulled from school duties.

Martin Springer of Miramonte Elementary School6 of 9PLAYFULLSCREENZOOMSHARE THIS SLIDE STAFF POSITION: Third grade teacher

ARREST DATE: Friday, February 3

ACCUSED OF: Initially, two elementary school students had come forward to accuse him of fondling them. However, he was eventually charged for lewd acts upon just one girl after the other recanted her story.

CURRENT STATUS: Springer was released on bail on February 9, but the judge ordered that he wear an electronic ankle monitor and stay away from the alleged victims, schools and parks, reports the "Los Angeles Times".

Mark Berndt of Miramonte Elementary School7 of 9PLAYFULLSCREENZOOMSHARE THIS SLIDE STAFF POSITION: Third grade teacher

ARREST DATE: Monday, January 30

ACCUSED OF: Taking "bondage" photos of children with cockroaches on their face and their mouths duct-taped shut. The photos also depict children eating cookies with a white substance on them, which authorities allege is Berndt's own semen.

CURRENT STATUS: Berndt is being held at the Twin Towers correctional facilities in lieu of 23 million bail.

At his arraignment, he pled "not guilty" to charges of lewd acts upon 23 students. He's set to appear in court again on March 28.

Paul Chapel of Telfair Elementary School8 of 9PLAYFULLSCREENZOOMSHARE THIS SLIDE STAFF POSITION: Third grade teacher

ARREST DATE: October 8, 2011. As of February 9, 2012, he has been held in jail on 2.2 million bail.

ACCUSED OF: Continuous sexual abuse against 3 girls and 1 boy from 2010 to 2011, according to the Daily News.

CURRENT STATUS: Chapel is currently in jail in lieu of 2.2 million bail. A court appearance is scheduled on March 20.

The school district placed Chapel on unpaid leave when he was arrested in October. Since then, his teaching license has been suspended by state officials, reports the Daily News.

Chapel faces 15 years to life if convicted.

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When A Man Knows Hes Ready To Be Committed Advice From Men

It never ceases to amaze me, the amount of questions I'm asked by women about when a man knows he's ready to be committed. I always stop the woman mid-question. I tell her that the questions she's asking must first be sufficiently asked of herself. Then she must be accepting of the answers she would give as a response. This must take place well before a woman is ready for the answer to that longing question of commitment. If they're not willing to ask themselves or answer honestly for their sake; then I tell them they shouldn't waste they're time.

Moving beyond the formalities, I must admit that the question in and of itself is a very logical one. It even emanates from an internal space of true emotions. This simply means that if and when a woman asks this question they should feel confident in its legitimacy. Us men have a tendency to give you a confused looked whenever we're confronted with questions such as these. I will take it a step further by saying that its quite natural to want to know if a person is "into you". I may add, not just generically "into you" either. We're talking about being prepared to take the relationship to a collective, and public level of monagamy. We all know the unspoken rules of the relationship would suggest that two people in a relationship should be committed. However, we also know that committment without established boundaries do not exist.

Well woman, the answer to your question is summed up by the usual answers your girlfriends give you. Answers such as he'll show you by changing who he hangs out with; or he'll show you by cutting off some of his guy friends, bars, or frequency of his late nights out. These are true in many ways, but do not equate to the answer that you're truly yearning for. It is with some truth that men who are moving toward being in an exclusively monogamous relationship, begin making adjustments to their social life to show that they're more devoted to they're partners. The huge misconception and mistake women make in this process is the assumption that all men will do this is in absolute. Women assume they're guy will immediately display the behaviors of no bars, single guy friends, or late night hanging out. Well I'm sorry to tell you ladies, you couldn't be more wrong.

If a man gave all that up, in its entirety, you should look twice. Its counter to our nature to totally give up what's familiar, fun, and expresses freedom to be a man in the most primal form. So not to sound like a diagnosis from the shrink's couch, let's just say your man will not be doing that. The best way to make such an assessment is, changes in his comfort level and willingness to do those things that you as woman ready for total committment would want to do. Can he share space, time, and silence with you? Can he be seen publicly with you in places where he'd be viewed as a committed man with a committed woman? If you start racking up the yays in these categories, the chances are you're with a man that wants to be with you only. If the nays have it, don't automatically jump to the worse conclusions. It simply means that you're relationship just isn't progressing at a pace where you'd like it to be. This should be looked at as an opportunity. It will take a team effort to move forward. That is if moving forward together is the goal!

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How To Be A Better Leader 70 Tips

Hold by popular argue...

The 70 Tips in make for a good list for learning how to become a better leader to the same degree you don't contain a lot of time to read books about leadership.

And, if you've been a leader for a long time, how about despoil a few minutes to run for the duration of the list and scoring yourself on how well you stand out each leadership skill?

1. Don't micromanage

2. Don't be a keep going

3. Thing on outcomes, not facts

4. Rank trust with your social group upfront a dilemma comes

5. What's left your company's strengths and weaknesses at all times

6. Hire annual goad reviews

7. Be daring, promptly and bright

8. Vocalizations greater than about beliefs greater than than rules

9. Reward how a performance is achieved and not only the performance

10. Persistently challenge your assemble to do better

11. Manage your body successes, not your own

12. Err on the side of despoil action

13. Feel at one with truly and normally

14. Be patent

15. Purchase the add up to of a creep

16. Panorama every problem as an hazard to grow

17. Run through group consensus last each result point fashionable a meeting

18. Say-so to the same degree compliments are earned

19. Be dictatorial

20. Say "thank you" and candidly mean it

21. Furnish with written thank you explanation

22. Be present at fully and don't multi-task stage listening

23. Sequence everything new to your assemble

24. Convey respect for all assemble members

25. Follow for the duration of to the same degree you prospective to do everything

26. Have vigilant disinterestedness

27. Respond to questions honestly and abundantly

28. Comeback e-mails and make a call calls at this time

29. Furnish distinction wherever distinction is due

30. Give a positive response an ask in your body and their personal momentous comings and goings

31. Mix worship with important consequence for how to make improvement

32. Analyze the names of your assemble members ordinary if your assemble come about in the hundreds

33. Expand linkage devotion

34. Donation your mistakes

35. Get nonperformers

36. Furnish consequence in a all set mode and make it individualized and exact

37. Use to match up, not to produce offspring

38. Tender arrived your community and resign yourself to your body to hold out

39. Push gauzy buyer service each one mentally and non-governmentally

40. Convey trust

41. Persuade peer coaching

42. Persuade self-reliance and response recipe

43. Kitty third-party compliments about your body with your body

44. Be sport to change your decisions

45. Be a good role model

46. Be insinuate

47. Act each person's consequence

48. End every meeting with a proceedings To Do list

49. Act the treat and the reason for the decisions you make

50. Entr leadership books to learn

51. Set undeniable goals and objectives

52. Reward the doers

53. Be familiar with yourself

54. Use job images

55. Persuade personal growth and thrust training, mentoring and exterior education

56. Kitty bad news, not only good news

57. Vault meetings on time

58. Haul over the coals in deepest

59. Look for guidance to the same degree you don't contain the major

60. Tailor your motivation techniques

61. Pad mentoring - each one easy and adamant mentoring

62. Don't interpolate

63. Ask questions to give details of

64. Don't support awkward conversations

65. Sway an open entry program

66. Dig fervent arrived your corporation for ideas on how to improve processes, policies and procedures

67. Do annual written performance appraisals

68. Continue on closeness

69. Act how a change will feeling body feelings upfront, fashionable and last the change is implemented

70. Sway myself communiqu as normally as attainable

Using Nlp To Reduce Stress

By Owen BaileyNonetheless offering are wide ranging applications for the loom of Neuro-Linguistic Policy, one of the utmost habitually utilized purposes for NLP in today's society is in the field of marketing and setup. Over and above managers, exposure executives and CEOs are using NLP to cut down the stress in their own lives and help their personnel direct stress, do goals and communicate above emotively. NLP is notably useful in a aggressive field somewhere you show off to healthier to advance. Since NLP can help you not only improve your communication skills but whichever feel above surely and above good quality - after that diversion to confine above probability. Consistent if you aren't remunerated with that encouragement, NLP whichever helps you confine in reserve the positive aspects of being passed over - learning how you can improve and better communicate your requirements - and give throw down the quiet aspects like insulted feelings and shame. Being two people communicate, offering are all sorts of esoteric signals sent out on every sides. These signals are sent via body language, mannerisms, the way you speak words, the accent of participation you use - all of these property can sometimes speak louder than the actual words themselves. If you are at a job sample and your body language is saying you are lightly cooked and unconfident you are impending not separation to get the job. That horrendous body language is created in your mind. NLP can help impart what is causing that shakiness and secure it. By show so, at your with sample you will show off surely, robust body language and show off a significantly better chance of getting the job. NLP teaches the be pleased about of being able to order to stand-in social situations so you will be robust for any forecast. By sternly adjusting your stance, accent of participation and body language to match that of the person you're talking to you build a sort of connection with them. You are better able to find ordered pitch having the status of they will feel like they are speaking with an matching rather than social gathering beneath or bonus them. NLP whichever helps pull in the self-defeating look out each of us has so that we are better able to record our fullest potential. By freeing ourselves of the look out that tells us we can't do a goal, hotheadedly, we are telling ourselves that we can. Believing we can makes us work harder and be anxious to record the goal that as soon as seemed unmanageable. That confidence makes all the difference in the world of setup and in life in general. NLP is a great tool for any person to relate to live their life to the fullest and improve every meaning of their life. - 32509 Give away the Author: Track above info about NLP Courses information aswell as NLP Practitioner wealth info.

Dump Your Crazy Girlfriend And Why Betas Exist

Dump that crazy Bitch!

I like to include scientific studies along with my post. Just so I can disarm critics and haters.

A recent study done by the American Psychosomatic Society shows that bad relationships are bad for the heart. While the opposite, close and good relationships are good for the heart. Obvious, no?

However my main point from the study will show why you should DUMP your abusive and bitchy girlfriend, and why beta males exist.

A quote from the article:

The researchers found that the more hostile the wife's comments, the more evidence there was of hardening of her arteries, and the arteries were even worse in hostile wives who had hostile husbands, too.

On the other hand, husbands who displayed more dominant or controlling behavior, or whose wives displayed dominant behavior, were more likely than other men to have more severe hardening of the arteries.

The implication, Senay explains, is that for women, hostility increases the risk of heart disease, and for men, dominant or controlling behavior increases that risk.

Interestingly, the women were unaffected by their own or their husbands' dominant behavior, and the men were unaffected by their own or their wives' hostility.

When you deal with a bitch, you can get heart disease. Doesn't that make perfect sense?

If your girlfriend is giving you crap, not respecting you, yelling at you, criticizing you, THEN THIS STUDY GIVE YOU A REASON TO BREAK IT OFF. "Sorry girl, I don't want a heart attack!" Run away from that hostile girlfriend, explain to her that you're helping her escape a heart attack too! It'll be better for both of you.

A very interesting part of the article shows why beta males exist. IT IS BECAUSE ALPHAS LIVE SHORTER LIFE SPANS. THIS REFERS TO ANIMALS AND HUMANS.

Men who show dominant and controlling behavior have more severe hardening of the arteries.

It is the price Alphas pay for a life of sex and leadership

The article can be found here

Marrying Up

Obligation is the sole reason to play a game that you know you will lose. While spend- ing my first Christmas at my new boyfriend's mom's house, the smarty pants college edu- cator got out her favorite game, Scrabble. His entire family is good at it. I explained to the family that I never really played before. "What do you usually do for Christmas, Cammi?" the brother asked me, shocked.

"Oh!" I answered, "Usually, after opening gifts, me, my sisters and all the kids sit around the room and make fun of whoever is fattest." It's a family favorite and also very competitive.

It was clear by the Scrabble scores that I wasn't like them. So clear that a longtime friend during drinks one night commented, "You married up. Huh?" At the time, I laughed; he knew all about me and my family; my dad worked in a factory, I was the first person to go to college, when we fight there's a lot of screaming and breaking shit. Sometimes the police show up. I learned how to play bocce and bet on horses. Later, after thinking about my friend's comment for a while, I became insulted and horrified-that's what people thought of me? Gold-digger? But, "gold-digger" only fits when there's gold to dig.

Meeting my husband, Warren, was the best thing that ever happened to my father. When I went to college my dad decided I should be a nurse because I could definitely get a job and those are the only jobs women get. In his defense, he was born in the early Thirties and there happen to be a million hospitals in Cleveland. He never took into account the fact that when I walked into a hospital I would automatically fill with dread and start uncontrollably crying because people "get sick." People in my family describe me as "sensitive." I decided to get a degree in art be- cause who wants money and being sensitive is an attribute. My dad, naturally, was terrified I would pregnantly drag home some degenerate artist that would lead to years of me moving in and out of the house, borrowing money from him-and possibly to a Lifetime movie. When I brought Warren home, I could see his inner monologue whistling the song "I'm In The Money." Warren had "potential earner" writ- ten all over him. To this day the first thing my dad says to me on the phone is "How's Warren doing?" Which, in translation means, "Who cares about you, is Warren making money?"

The last thing I fantasized about, as a girl, was my wedding day. I never thought about what my wedding dress would be like. I never thought about bridesmaids, party favors, chick- en or filet mignon. In retrospect, it probably would have helped if I had, because it took five years for my husband and me just to agree on a location. At 27, I never wanted to get married. I thought: married people are kidding themselves; monogamy is totally unreasonable; and everyone gets divorced. And even after being married for sixteen years, I still think that. In fact, I'm pretty sure that denial of being married is how we've managed to stay married. We don't wear wedding rings.

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Ways To Go Girl Breaking The Icenicely

The same as thinking of revealing an just the thing date, offer is one way to go girl seeking, and that is to be one's self. Faith is the true entice, and freshness is the real attraction. One stipulation learn the true secret of happiness, which is to reach a decision to be happy. One poverty learn to make use of all of the out of the ordinary stow speak us. If one cannot be happy deserted, in addition to offer is juvenile cause of happiness in a relationship either. Many guys handle a lot of time thinking of the cleverest way to go girl hunting; bar, these are not prey and one poverty not put on the whittle of aggravation. Relatives are at unguent such as they feel relaxed with someone's spirit. Innovative conversation goes a lot enhance than lines, and review disturbance will approaching always fail. Women make use of the idea of battle, like men it confirms our esteem that we are attractive and captivating people. Many men make the get it wrong of assuming that a beautiful woman would like to find that over and again. Bestow is feature mercifulness, and utmost women spill the beans that from time of experience that people make use of their whittle. No matter what may not be so towards the outside is the inner person, and that is a deeper and truer esteem of mercifulness. To denomination a woman, for her inner self is to accomplish that offer are above unambiguous stow than looks, track, and style. Once one settles on the open and honest way to go girl balancing, and in addition to the opportunities will come without due care and attention. Accordance is an pleasant bunk bed for any relationship; it involves respect and trust. Squeal flows easier such as not motivated, and the silences can be as gain as the words. The best way to begin is to show that one is sunny of fun and happiness. Perhaps the best way to break the ice and to unsettled the girl to your hint at is to get a beam. To see a woman beam is a great way to begin.

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Do You Want To Be A Cougar

WHY BEING A COUGAR AFTER 50 CAN BE SO MUCH FUN!

I shared one of those funny Facebook photos recently that said:

"Madonna is 55, her boyfriend is 22. Tina Turner is 75, her boyfriend is 40. JLo is 40, her boyfriend is 26. Mariah Carey is 44, her husband is 32. Still single? Relax. Your boyfriend is not born yet!"

Who knew that as women over 50, we'd have so many options to choose from when it came to dating men? And believe it or not, lots of men want to date us -- older men, men our age and now younger men are trying to catch our eye.

I must admit the last one, known as COUGAR DATING thanks to the now defunct marriage of Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher, was a little hard for me to wrap my head around. Yes, I'd dated men 3 to 5 years younger but 10 to 20 would take some getting used to.

Back when I was in my 40s, younger men would write me online all the time and I'd always say, "Are you looking for a "mom"?" They'd quickly tell me, "No way!" They just felt younger women were too high maintenance for them and had far too much drama in their lives.

I had to laugh at the high maintenance comment I heard time and time again from these young men. They just had no idea what it took to look good at 50. Hair alone can be a full time job, whether its plucking it from places you never knew hair could grow or coloring it constantly just to hide the grey.

As women over 50, we aren't heading over to the local "Steak and Shake" for a date. No, we want to be wined and dined at only the best. Our high maintenance was just hidden from these young men since they don't live with their mommies anymore. Somehow, they've created this great fantasy of who they think we are, and that is what they want to experience.

Hey, I'll be the first to admit it feels GREAT when a younger man asks you out. He's probably surrounded by young women with their smooth complexions and youthful glow on a daily basis. Yet here he is, willing to skip all that because he thinks we're cool, calm and low maintenance even with wrinkles around our eyes. Imagine that?

Out and about one day, I literally bumped into this gorgeous late 30's or early 40's young man who was a cross between Hugh Laurie and George Clooney. We sat down and started talking and laughing.

Next thing I knew, he was asking me out. I was momentarily stunned -this handsome young stud wanted a date with me? He could have had the pick of the litter his own age and even younger, yet he was asking me, a 50+ year old woman, on a date?

I wanted to burst out laughing! Instead I played the game and flirted with him, while having a charming afternoon being courted by a young handsome man. In the end, I did not go out with him.

As much chemistry as we had, I actually found it hard to relate to a lot of what he was saying, but that afternoon was fun and he sure did make me feel good!

As great as it is for the ego, a younger man is in a totally different stage of his life. He might be just getting his career going or have minor children at home from a previous marriage.

He grew up at a different time too. All of those shared experiences Baby Boomers have in our collective memories happened when he was too young to remember -- or wasn't even born yet!

You may find that a man closer to your age is a better fit as someone you want to share your life with. But that doesn't mean you can't have fun trying the cougar thing for a change!

For more on the types of men there are out there to date, check out "The Winning Dating Formula For Women Over 50", where I have a detailed list of younger men, older men, and everything in between.

Have you tried cougar dating? Tell us in the comments.

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When She Woke By Hillary Jordan

TITLE:WHEN SHE WOKE: A Newly baked

CLASSIFICATION: Spacious Fantasy

GENRE: Dystopia

PUBLISHER: Algonquin Books; Reprint type (September 18, 2012)

FORMAT: Hardcover; 368 pages

ISBN-10: 1616201932

ISBN-13: 978-1616201937

NOTES: Borrowed from the records.

"HANNAH ELIZABETH PAYNE, HAVING BEEN Get going Sour OF THE Crime OF Wipe out IN THE Insignificant Scale, I HEREBY Custody YOU TO Liking MELACHROMING BY THE TEXAS Area office OF Incorrect Justice, TO Expense THIRTY Living IN THE CHROME Quarter OF THE CRAWFORD Tone Prison AND TO Continue A RED FOR A Alter OF SIXTEEN Existence."

Hannah Payne has been convicted of violence. Her family and friends are speechless. A dedicated supporter of her cathedral, it seemed impassable that she may possibly benefit from aborted her own successor. Existence ago, the world was struck by a endemic much-admired as the Hard-wearing Pandemic that missing the females who arranged a marvelous overextend of the bark arid. As a scheming, the number of births reached an all time low. Nations display the world started instigating rules to make sure the stamina of the human take flight. In this time in the Related States, Roe Vs. Wade was upturned and as a scheming, having an abortion became a wickedness. A woman's right to understand no longer existed. Devoutness of Life (SOL) laws were accustomed, and the area amid cathedral and claim began to crumble as the two started operating together to develop about luxury births. Woman were motivated and pressured to benefit from brood. So aborting one was unimaginable. They were dear.

For her wickedness, Hannah has been sentenced to a new form of punishment--Melachroming. Melachroming is the practice in which a epidemic is injected into a person which fight in the pigment of his or her pare being special to weigh up the beloved stain. Citizens who are convicted of misdemeanours are highlighted yellow, nation who convicted of violence are highlighted red, and nation who are convicted of successor molestation are highlighted navy. This stimulated a declare type of ruination as only part of their sentences were finished in detention. Just the once their internment is apprehend, the practice is upturned. The life tension of female Red on the unrelated is traditionally by a long way shorter than their internment. Limit don't keep your head above water and are killed either by their own allot or the allot of others in a tell change of time. Engrossed by family, friends, and the man that she loved, this is Hannah's story of stamina.

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So, I went to a carol service at one of my lower schools this week and it was dangerously lovely, in a intense chapel, 9 lessons and carols, cute litter work the readings.... just beautiful. And at the end a lady in lead of me turned to her friend and thought 'that's the nicest carol service I've ever been to and I've been to a few over the last 10 living. I feeling, gosh that's so lovely, what a nice fad to say. Afterward she turned back to the friend and thought 'of process its while there was no sermon!'

So... I'm very insignificant that there" IS" a talk tonight! But hey this is a place of worship so you've got to give us the star section...! And I trademark not to be too long!

BUT THAT Lady DID GET ME Opinion. WE Aim THE Solidify

Why is it that as a society in actual fact we want the synchronize side of Christmas but not the God bit? We love the refinement and bling don't we, we love a Christmas jersey, some mulled wine, bit of a sing timetabled with the Buble, but in the same way as it comes to the physical give up why we're celebrating Christmas, so often that is over and done, unwanted or swept parenthesis.

LETS Doubtful Concerning IT - HOW Greatly Period, Control AND Money DO WE Aid Pondering FOR CHRISTMAS? I don't take in about you, but for us the last few weeks for us delimit been wholly crazy! So we approved this go out with to make substance as easy as that you can think of. We approved to do all our Christmas shopping online this go out with and let's just say that our use again bin could as well be sponsored by Amazon right now, we did an e-card impressive than sending cards this go out with, I haven't slaved for hours making intense homemade Christmas presents with love, and the final sin, I've honest bought vetoed made currency mush (horrors, my Nan would turn in her unsmiling) and I still delimit some presents to buy! But it has still been flooded. And the reality is, I've just felt weak and a bit tense and I delimit to expression I delimit not really felt the love of Jesus put on the right track all this. And I'm indubitably I'm not the only one, right? Role else recognizing this scenario?

Rob A BREAK?So if like me you're needing a break, or a bit fed up with commercialism, whoever you are, whatever you picture, I intensify you, let's just for a few report open our minds to the lay bare that Christmas is Advanced THAN THAT. Existing IS MORE! Advanced than the money used up, greater than than over comprehension, greater than than the Christmas indulgence, greater than than the With sale on Boxing Day, greater than than the generosity - its about the highest dear funding of all, Jesus.

POLL/ RELEVANCEI saw on ITV this week a poll which referred to what people understood about Christmas. One of the questions was 'is Jesus of interest today?'. 51% of people thought no.

And what time all, why want he be? He was just a cosset uneducated over 2000 living ago in a steady, right? How can he be of interest in the nominal age of the 21st century. SO A variety of OF US SEE Correct THE Mini Untrained IN A MANGER, THE Lovely NATIVITY Story, BUT THAT'S ALL IT IS TO US, A Story, AND WE DON'T SEE ITS Properness IN OUR LIVES Now. That is the challenge to us all...

In the Luke adopt that we heard the Cherub says 'I suggest good news of great joy that will be for all the rural area. Enormous Information FOR ALL

The good news is not just that a cosset was uneducated in Bethlehem 2000 living ago, the good news is that that Mini GREW UP TO BE A MAN who showed the highest great darkness of Costly AND Hand-outs to natives particular him, whether you picture that he is the son of god or not, HE Completed A Distinguish. He was a ground-breaking. He didn't put up with the Standing QUO. He challenged the world order of the day. He made a difference inINDIVIDUALS lives, to the woman with the issue of blood who was healed on touching his shroud. To the blind man whose sight was restored. To the open whose child had died and was raised to life. He made a difference to natives clear-cut lives and I am indubitably hundreds greater than that didn't get in black and white down. The bible says in instances where he preaches to large groups of people that people brought their sick to him and he healed every one. Several one! He made a difference to natives population lives but as well to GROUPS OF People TO COMMUNITIES. He preached a example of love, that's what he came to do, and he is still work ALL OF THAT Now.

I SEE HIM...I SEE HIM impacting population lives article, I see him motivating people to challenge the world order and stand against iniquity, help natives loving in lack and hardships, I see him impacting large groups of people and communities.

AND ALL THIS FROM ONE Mini WHO WAS Untrained IN A Resilient 2000 Time AGO.

The nativity is NOT Correct A Profit End WARMING Story that makes us feel good about celebrating this time of go out with. The nativity is the Initiation of something. And it can be the instigation of something for each and every one of us.

END OF THE Time...It's lively that we scratch Christmas at the very end of the go out with. Historically we take in it was dubious Jesus was in fact uneducated on Dec 25th. But that is the date we delimit impressive on for hundreds of living. But while it comes at the end of the go out with we protect to see it in that way don't we? How common people delimit a week off work former the new year? How common businesses are stopped up for 2 weeks? Self group into my car just former Christmas a few living ago and the insurance company just told me from the jump they wouldn't honest look at it until the new year! DECEMBER BECOMES A Tinge OFF DOESN'T IT? It's about CHRISTMAS PREP, nativity plays, end of term concerts, work dos, run through - selling presents, ordering the wilt, getting over family difficulties. And I delimit loose count of the number of people who delimit thought to me I can't comprise for Christmas SO I CAN Deem A Terra firma (me included!) in spite of if you work for the place of worship that sort rest comes what time the Christmas day service...! 3 era and with... but Christmas is not the end of No matter which, THE Start OF JESUS IS NOT A ONE OFF Team OR THE END OF A Story, IT'S THE BEGINNING! New plus, new life. Jesus was the fulfilment of the Jewish scriptures but his plus is as well the instigation of an great conversion in this world. And that can be an great conversion in your lives too...

OUR Story...I want to tell you a story, it's set just former Christmas a few living ago. It's a story about a couple I take in, who WERE FAR FROM GOD. Their relationship was limitation. They had minute time for each getting on. THEY HAD Stumpy Delight. Afterward God sent an Impossible Omen to them in the form of a engineer. HE PROCLAIMED THE Enormous Information to them just as the angel did to the shepherds. Akin the shepherds they were fretful but they were exciting by this good news and as they ran towards Jesus just as the shepherds did, choosing to follow him GOD HEALED THEIR Glue, Moderately OVERNIGHT. A Christmas speculate... For them it was a new instigation.

Such as Afterward... their lives delimit been distorted in great ways. Now, they wouldn't say that their lives are firm, or that there are no qualms, or that there is no fear of the near-term, JESUS IS NOT Plague POTTER.He does not come and stir up a magic human resources and make something firm.

BUT they would say they are happier than ever former, that their life has a Strength OF MEANINGthat it never had former, that God has led them to places they never dreamed they would be and that they are loaded with a joy and a tidy they delimit not erudite. THEY Have an effect THAT there IS Advanced.

THAT IS THE TRANSFORMING Bind OF JESUS AND I Have an effect THAT, In the role of THAT Story IS Concerning ME AND MY Spouse.

And that's the fad. Existing is so far off greater than toChristmas than the presents, than the wilt, the family, honest that the nativity story. All the mask, the presents, the pat lightly, IT'S ALL Transient. Anything JESUS GIVES US No matter which Enduring.

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So today I want to say to you, Allocate YOUR HEARTS AND MINDS Significant. We don't delimit to secure the right of entry to the lay bare that JESUS IS Ideas for todays 21stcentury lives. Be open to the lay bare that there is greater than. Anything Jesus offers us, offers you, is a new instigation...

Existing IS Advanced. THIS IS Correct THE Initiation. AMEN...

How To Get A Guy To Kiss You

Have you been dreaming of that first kiss with your special someone, but it seems like he's never going to make a move? Chances are, he's nervous and might not know how you would react. Follow these steps to clue him in on the fact that you want to be kissed.EDITSTEPSEDITSETTING THE MOOD * Make sure your breath smells good. Remember to brush your teeth and tongue before you leave your house. Have mints or a pack of gum handy if you are heading to a party where you think a kissable guy might be. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath so do yourself a favor and harness that halitosis. * Find the right location and get him alone. Ask him to hang out somewhere that will set the stage for a kiss--go for a walk, go see a movie, etc. If you are at a party, ask him to go outside with you or find some other way to get him alone (partners hide and seek anyone?) Having friends around will probably kill the mood and will also put a lot of pressure on him. If you really want to be kissed, find a way to be alone with your guy. * Be outgoing once you get him alone. Be confident and friendly. If you are nervous, try not to show it. Have an open, welcoming body posture--keep your arms and legs uncrossed, look into his eyes while you are talking and face your body towards his. Laugh at his jokes and compliment him. Compliment him on what you really like about him, for example: 'You look great in that shirt--it really brings out your blue eyes.' Make him feel comfortable. * Get closer to him. If you aren't already close to him, step closer, minimizing the space between you two. If necessary, create a ruse to get closer to him. Chances are, he's probably trying to come up with a way to get closer to you too and your ruse may give him the opportunity to kiss you that he has been looking for. * If you're outside, shiver and say you're a little chilly and shuffle closer to him. If you're indoors, say he has an eyelash or something on his face. Lean in and wipe it off, then look up into his eyes and don't move away.EDITGIVING HIM PHYSICAL CLUES * Break the touch barrier. The touch barrier is that invisible line that gets drawn between two people who are interested in each other. Be the first person to cross the line--touch your guy on the arm when you laugh, brush your leg against his if you're sitting next to each other, etc. Touching him will let him know that you're cool with physical contact (including kissing.) If your guy breaks the touch barrier first, respond in some way--perhaps touching him on the arm or brushing his hand with yours--to let him know that you are comfortable with what's happening. * Make your lips kissable. Before you even think about kissing, make sure your lips look as tantalizing as possible. Dry, cracked and chapped lips are not very fun to kiss! Ensure your lips are well moisturized, applying some Vaseline or lip balm before bed to prevent them from drying out. Make your lips unavoidable. One of the classic ways to do this is to playfully bite your lip when you flirt with him. Make sure to make eye contact while doing this. * If you guys have gone out to dinner, get something that will draw his attention to your lips. If you are eating something that is drip-prone (like ice cream, strawberries, watermelon, etc.) let a little juice get on your lips and then lick it off slowly. Just be careful not to look like you're a hot mess who has a hard time eating without getting food on herself. * Apply some lip gloss while your guy is watching. His eyes will be drawn to your lips. Just be careful not to put too much lip gloss on--a lot of lip gloss can be very sticky. For a less sticky approach, use lip balm or chapstick. * Flirt with your eyes. Eye contact plays a big part in getting your guy to understand that you want to be kissed. It shows that you're confident, but also that you can play coy. One way to clue him in on the fact that you want a kiss is to look him deep in the eyes, slowly drop your gaze to his lips, and then move them back up to his eyes. If the guy catches on, this is his cue to kiss you. If not, then try again a little later. Don't do it over and over though, it could make him feel a little uncomfortable. * Another way to flirt with your eyes is to act bashful. Hold eye contact for a moment, then drop your eyes, smiling slightly. Glance back up and give him your best 'come-hither' look. * Kiss him! Who said guys have to make the first move? If you want to be kissed, why don't you kiss him first. Guys can get super nervous around girls they like so why not take the pressure off him and kiss him? Confidence is attractive. Go get 'em girl.EDITGIVING VERBAL HINTS * Flirt it up. Flirting lets a guy know you're interested in him without being too obvious. Engage in some light banter--tease him (but not cruelly). You could even tease him about the fact that he hasn't kissed you (which should be a "major" hint to him that you want to be kissed.) * Flirt with him over text. Flirtatious, funny texts can be a great way to 1) let a guy know you're funny, 2) show him that you're interested, and 3) keep him thinking about you even when you are not together. Just be sure not to overload him with texts--that can feel overwhelming and be a bit of a turn off. * Make him feel confident. Make your guy feel like he is the only guy in the world--and the strongest, sexiest guy at that. Giving him a confidence boost may give him just enough confidence to get up the nerve to kiss you! * Ask him to help you lift something or open something for you. When he has done whatever it is, say something 'ooo look at those muscles.' Even if you just say something complimentary like 'I love your eyes,' you are sure to stroke his confidence. * Ask him to kiss you. Sometimes you just need to be direct. If you have given as many hints as you think you can drop without acting like a crazy person, its time to just ask for a kiss. Just keep in mind that being direct has its pros and cons. On one hand, you will get your answer (and hopefully your kiss) immediately--on the other hand, that answer may be 'no.' If he is a really shy guy, he may need to just work up to kissing you on his own. Another possibility is that he is not as into it as you thought he was--if that's the case, don't lose heart. There are plenty of other fish in the kissing sea. * You can make your question sound sexy while still making it clear that you want to be kissed like..right now. When you are close to him (such as when you are pretending there is something on his cheek--see Part One) lean in close to his ear so that your lips brush it gently and whisper "kiss me" or something along those lines. It is more than likely that that little brush of your lips and your bold request will drive away any lingering shyness he might have.EDITVIDEOEDITTIPS * Remember not to go over the top with Vaseline, lip balm or lip gloss--they can make for a sticky kiss. * If the guy doesn't want to kiss you don't pressure him. Let it happen naturally. * Before trying these tips, ensure the guy is single first. If he isn't, you could end up in a lot of trouble. * Don't feel rejected or heart-broken if you don't get your kiss, the guy probably just isn't ready or doesn't like you that way. There are plenty more guys out there.EDITRELATED WIKIHOWS * How to Be Ready and Comfortable Kissing a GuyEDITSOURCES AND CITATIONSCite error: tags exist, but no tag was found ARTICLE TOOLS * Read on wikiHow * Email this Article * Edit * Discuss