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Self-criticism has many faces. It might be a subtle push toward producing better work, or it might be an aggressive or abusive assertion that you're wrong, bad or seriously flawed, said Ali Miller, MFT, a therapist in private practice in Berkeley and San Francisco, Calif., who specializes in helping adults live more authentic, empowered and connected lives.
Self-critical thoughts have two things in common, she said: They're very painful, and they're founded on the belief that you're not good enough.
They may sound like: "I'll never amount to anything, I'm so lazy, I always ruin relationships, I'm a lousy cook/mom/dad/friend/worker/person."
Some people don't want to stop criticizing themselves because they believe it's the only way to motivate change. Miller likened it to a critical parent believing they need to focus on what their child did wrong to boost the chances that they'll do things the right way in the future. Parents might call their kids lazy to motivate them to work harder, she said.
Others believe they need to banish their inner critic for good. "When people first become aware of their inner critic and see how much pain the inner critic is bringing about, it is common to want to get rid of the inner critic, and to do so by either ignoring it, telling it to shut up, or pushing it away somehow," she said.
However, both of these beliefs are actually misconceptions. Self-criticism might work in the short term. But it "often leads to stress, burnout, depression, anxiety, and a perpetual feeling of never being 'good enough,' which wreaks havoc on our self-esteem and enjoyment of life," Miller said.
People who want to eliminate their inner critic typically find it just keeps roaring. "[A]ll parts of ourselves want to be heard, including the inner critic, and that until we are heard, we continue to speak up, often getting louder and louder."
Miller views the inner critic as a part of us that tries to get our attention because it's concerned about our well-being. "It is attempting to care for us, but is doing so in a painful and unhelpful way," she said. Instead of trying to get rid of your inner critic, consider acknowledging its good intentions. This doesn't condone its harsh approach, she said. Rather, it's about exploring the feelings and needs it's trying to express.
"When we look more closely at the inner critic, we often discover a lot of fear underneath the bully facade. When we see this fear, and see how the inner critic is ultimately trying to help us, it loses its destructive power."
Below, Miller shared specific ways to approach our inner critic without unknowingly feeding it.
KNOW YOUR INNER CRITIC.
"If it doesn't feel too threatening, I encourage people to get curious about their inner critic, to get to know their inner critic," Miller said.
She suggested asking these questions: What does your inner critic say? When does it say these things? Does it always criticize you? Or does it show up in specific situations? What are these situations? Does it have a certain tone? What are its fears? What is important to it?
EXPLORE YOUR OWN FEELINGS.
"Get to know how you feel when your inner critic is criticizing you," Miller said. Sometimes, it's hard to identify the inner critic, but your feelings can serve as clues that the inner critic is present, she said.
For instance, you might feel shame, sadness, self-doubt, fear, hopelessness, irritability and frustration, she said.
"[I]t is important to acknowledge that it hurts to be criticized. You may want to say, 'Ouch,' next time you feel the effects of self-criticism, and be compassionate toward yourself in this moment of suffering."
TALK TO YOUR INNER CRITIC.
When you notice your inner critic is present, say aloud or to yourself "Hello, inner critic." Ask your inner critic what message it's trying to send, and why. ("Be careful, though, not to believe what it says at first.")
As Miller said, beneath its biting words, there are good intentions. These may be support, safety, connection and kindness. Get curious about these intentions. Because this can be a tough activity, write down your dialogue.
She shared this example: Your inner critic says, "I want you to stop being such a selfish person." You delve deeper, and ask why it wants this. "Is it scared that you will alienate others because being connected to others is important to it? Is it worried that others won't be there to support you if you don't support others?"
"You'll know the inner critic feels heard when it quiets down," Miller said. That's when you can express how you feel and ask for compassion, she said.
You might say: "When you're worried about me losing connection with others, I'm wondering if you could tell me that you're worried, rather than calling me names, because it's very painful for me when I hear you call me selfish, and I think I could hear you better if you talk to me with more kindness."
Sometimes, your inner critic may be especially harsh, and this kind of communication feels dangerous, Miller said. That's when she recommends working with a counselor or coach -- "just like you might if you were in a relationship with someone who you didn't feel safe talking with on your own."
Miller called this approach to self-criticism a nonviolent one, because it doesn't criticize the inner critic or deem it the "bad guy."
"It's an approach that is rooted in the principle that everything we say or do is an attempt to meet needs, and that includes everything we say to ourselves, even our self-critical thoughts."
FURTHER READING
Miller suggested these additional resources:
* "The Mindful Path to Self-Compassion" by Christopher Germer
* "Self-Compassion" by Kristin Neff
* "There is Nothing Wrong with You" by Cheri Huber
* "Embracing your Inner Critic" by Hal and Sidra Stone
* "Ending the Struggle Against Yourself" by Stan Taubman
* "Nonviolent Communication" by Marshall Rosenberg, which has most influenced Miller's approach.
BY BARBARA OAKLEY "Pathological altruism is merely altruism in which attempts to promote the welfare of others instead result in unanticipated harm. Altruism, in other words, isn't an unmitigated good. In fact, it can have horrific consequences. The old adage "the road to hell is paved with good intentions" is all too true. What the concept of pathological altruism does is to put the aphorism's essence onto scientific footing, so we can examine it more carefully and truly understand its effects. Altruism arises in large part from our pre-wired sense of empathy for others. We often don't realize that our empathy can trick us-it can be like an emotional, rather than optical, illusion. You feel a knee-jerk flash of wanting to make someone feel better, and you can end up doing that person a disservice. Whether you give an alcoholic the drink he craves, or a student a high grade she hasn't earned, or you encourage truly unaffordable home ownership or taking out of student loans that will result in a lifetime of indentured service-all of these actions can feel like they're helping, but they truly aren't. The concept of pathological altruism doesn't imply that altruism itself is problematic. Instead, this concept illustrates that both empathic emotion and rationality are important in truly attempting to perform an altruistic act. Sometimes the best thing to do to help someone else is not what your knee-jerk empathetic feelings are telling you to do. In a culture where we've been increasingly taught-virtually indoctrinated-to "follow our passion" and to believe that empathy is a "universal solvent" that will disentangle all difficulties, pathologies of altruism can flourish. The unwitting result of this kind of altruism is detrimental for everyone.Altruism bias is the tendency to let our underlying judgment about whether something is good or bad flavor seemingly rational decisions. We see this type of thing playing out in politics all the time. If you support the president and his political party, then you'll find a way to generally support the president's decisions. Those very same decisions, if made by a president of the opposite political party, can arouse profound antagonism. If you want an aphorism for altruism bias, it's "all's fair in love and war." My sense is that eventually, we'll actually be able to see the brain's thumbs-up or thumbs-down heuristic, which is a nutshell version of altruism bias, in medical-imaging experiments. In other words, we'll be able to see how that sense of "this is good" can shape subsequent neural processing. Actually, it shouldn't be too hard to come up with neuroimaging experiments that demonstrate this.Codependency is a big problem in this country. One single book-"Codependent No More", by Melody Beattie, has sold over five million copies. Yet there is virtually no credible scientific research in this area. Why? My suspicion is that altruism bias leads scientists away from studying possible negative effects of empathy. In the edited book "Pathological Altruism" (Oxford University Press, 2012), psychiatrist Mike McGrath and I explored how little we truly know about codependency, and how scientists put themselves through virtual contortions to avoid studying anything to do with the phenomenon.Modern secular society members believe they are protected by their atheistic worldviews from religious superstitions. But evolutionary psychology has shown that we seem to have a biologically based propensity for spirituality. If you throw away organized religion, it doesn't mean that the pull for spirituality just disappears. It is simply shifted to something else. The central spiritual tenet of modern atheistic creeds seems to be that altruism is always good. Actually, modern atheistic, progressive thought often seems to share much in common with religious fundamentalism, right down to shunning and demonizing of those who don't think in the way they deem proper. Altruism has become a sacred, unquestionably good dogma in today's secular society, and that has profoundly shaped cultural mores, political discourse, and contemporary politics. Because altruism is sacred, as soon as you might question someone who says they are being altruistic, you unwittingly provoke a visceral, deeply religious reaction. The idea that altruism is always good is obviously false. There are thousands of ways to see this, ranging from giving too many cookies to a child, to philanthropy that helps horrific dictators, to genocide. But because people have heard little except of the benefits of empathy and altruism as they have grown up, it's very hard for them to see beyond the current paradigm-altruism is always good. People aren't taught that balanced rationality as well as emotion is important in truly helping others. Your emotions may tug at you, for example, to give your alcoholic brother that bottle he is begging for, but truly, acting against the tug of your emotion in this case is the best thing to do.Pathological altruism is an equal-opportunity offender of a concept. If we were now living in a society run by religious mullahs, concepts of pathological altruism would provide a powerful tool for understanding why the general population would be applauding the death by torture of free-speech advocates. I think that less-reflective partisans who might write a patently false headline would themselves be exemplifying altruism bias. These partisans would be happy to mischaracterize ideas of pathological altruism in order to protect what they subliminally regard as the sacred nature of altruism.The best disciplines to unpack pathological altruism should be psychology, sociology, and anthropology. But these disciplines have shown themselves to be among the worst offenders in demonstrating pathological altruism. Read Napoleon Chagnon's sadly magnificent book "Noble Savages: My Life among Two Dangerous Tribes-the Yanomamo and the Anthropologists". Chagnon's magnum opus gives a great sense of how unhinged some academic disciplines have become. Academics in the social sciences are presently so enraptured in the "empathy and altruism is always good" mindset that I really don't know how it could be easily changed. Textbooks, teaching methods, research methods-a whole academic culture is caught up in an almost revivalist agenda about empathy and altruism, all emerging from altruism bias. Personally, I don't think change will happen until we receive some dramatic cultural shock that allows reality to peep through the Pollyanna perspectives. Even when such shocks arise, it's still all too easy to pretend it isn't happening, it'll all go away, or it's really someone else's fault. I think neuroscience at present perhaps offers the best hope for the study of pathological altruism and altruism bias-but only if neuroscientists can reach beyond their usual academic silos and talk to thinkers outside the insular, often close-minded world of academia.Philosopher Eric Hoffer wondered, in his book "The True Believer," how people could be so caught up in mass movements that lead to so much horror. We need wonder no more. People often become entranced and entrenched in these horrific movements because, at the time, they believe they are helping others. 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How to Take to mean a Woman's Body Lecture
Now for the sake of judgment in understanding, I'll give you a table of all the positive signs a woman you're dating is maybe beating you with. And of management, what intimates signs mean!
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So She Does
So She Treat
The Head/Hair Launch
Men love women with long hair and women are stacks significant of this fact. So if they are intrigued by you (agreeably, of management), they would like to outline your attention to their long, sleek and sexy pelt.
Flicking/Twisting/Playing with hair
Of management not all women maintain that delightful long pelt, but they do their best to attract your attention by twirling their hair and deception it from time to time. They want to look good for you, don't you think?
Collar Touching
The neck is one of the 'erogenous' parts of the body. You make itself felt what that means? It medium that she feels "nice" taking into consideration she touches herself submit. And that she doesn't mind rent herself go in insolence of you. If she does her neck a bit more ferociously, in all probability she wants a back-rub.
Tired Her Shoes
This one is a awkward one. A women coerce want to say that she's constant dazed and want to go to bed. Still, it possibly will be a upright pointer that the woman wants to draw more than what she's airy-fairy.
The Want Gape
It is the sign that utmost men misread the utmost. A woman who gives a long, hard glinting concern and looks like she's not listening to what you're saying (a man's field, basically!), in all probability she's looking for more than just friendship and trying to see if you're getting the slay.
Concrete Enter
If she touches you a bit too steadily, she probably likes you, thinks you're good looking and that she trusts you. If she touches herself, it's the exceptionally as earlier without the trust.
Grooming
And conclusively, the utmost chief and primeval sign of attraction. Plants do it, plants do it and so do humans. Does she cover well for you? Does she characteristically maintain something more rabble-rousing to attract your attention? Do her military hardware and legs look agreeably sexy? Origin as a consequence she wants you to look at her and worth her!
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ACCELERATED LEARNING TECHNIQUE
Step 1: Imagine one time when you are learning. A time when you are doing it well, you are in the zone. Imagine it as vividly as possible. Imagine it as you are reliving it. See what you saw; hear what you heard, feel what you felt and so on.
Step 2: Double it.
Step 3: Imagine if the feeling were a color or colors, then what would they be.
Step 4: Imagine five situations or times this will be useful.
Step 5: Repeat Step 1 - Step 5 three times for three situations.
HYPNOSIS - POWER STATES: PART 1
Step 1: Imagine one time when you are doing something exceptionally well. Remember it as vividly as possible. See what you saw; hear what you heard, feel what you felt and so on. Imagine it as if you are repeating the memory just how it happened and in full detail.
Step 2: Imagine a control panel somewhere outside of that memory. Kind of like how dvd players are. However, this control panel can do anything you can imagine.
Step 3: Make the mental image of the memory bigger, louder and even more vivid. Think Dolby Surround sound and 3D.
Step 4: Repeat this process with two other situation where you are performing exceptionally well. Make sure these have nothing to do with each other except you are performing exceptionally well.
HYPNOSIS - POWER STATES: PART 2
Step 1: Imagine if those feelings of times of performing exceptionally well were a color or colors, then what would they be. If you need to go through each one, one at a time, then combine them, but keep them separate. For instance, they might be similar, but slightly different and we want to maintain variability.
Step 2: Imagine how you could enjoy this more.
Step 3: Imagine three things (Hint: Learning States and times when you are learning) were this would be useful.
Step 4: Repeat Step 2, Step 3 and do this 3 times.
HYPNOSIS - POWER STATES: PART 3
Step 1: Repeat Power states Part 1 and Part 2, but with times when you are learning.
Step 2: Notice what is the same and what is different.
Step 3: Imagine what the purpose of these exercise was.
Step 4: Imagine what else this could be useful for.
EHE - CHANGE BEHAVIOR - SELF- HYPNOSIS EXERCISE
Step 1 - Think of a time when you where confused, like when you first stated learning something. Imagine it enough until you begin to feel it just a little bit. Now, imagine if that feeling were a color or colors, then what would it be. If you have to guess.
Step 2 - Think of behavior you desire to change. Add that color or colors too the mental image. So, it seems to glow with that color or colors.
Step 3 - Think of a time when you were learning something, you were confused and then all of a sudden it makes sense. Imagine it enough until you begin to feel it just a little bit. Now, imagine if that feeling were a color or colors, then what would it be. If you have to guess.
Step 4 - Think of the behavior you desire to change. Imagine it as vividly as possible and add a little small black square in the middle of it. Add the color or colors from step 3 to the little black box so it glows with it. Now, think of five different things you would rather do than that undesired behavior and add them to the little black box. Make is so the mental images in the little box swishes (literally make the swish noise mentally) over the mental image of the undesired behavior.
Step 5 - Think of an extreme version of the undesired behavior and then immediately think of the funniest or silliest thing you can think of. Repeat three times.
Step 6 - Repeat Step 4 for three other examples. Then think of three examples if could have had happened in the future and notice the difference. If needed repeat Step 5 and then Step 4.
PAST TRANCE - SELF-HYPNOSIS EXERCISE - OVERLAPPING SENSORY EXPERIENCE TO ENHANCE EXPERIENCE
Step 1 - Imagine some time when you experiences a natural state of hypnosis or a self hypnosis experience.
Step 2 - Remember it as vividly as possible.
Step 3 - Imagine if that feeling were a color or colors, then what would it be and how would it move.
Step 4 - Repeat a few times with other experiences.Imagine those colors spinning around you and through you.
Step 5 - Increase how vivid they are and how fast they spin.
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nature is the first guru of man kindhere is how man learn information from nature"My 24 gurus are:"1. Nestle, 2. Hose down, 3. AIR, 4. Lay off, 5. SKY, 6. MOON, 7. SUN, 8. PIGEON, 9. PYTHON, 10. Sea, 11. MOTH, 12. BEE, 13. HONEY-GATHERER, 14. Goliath, 15. DEER, 16. Lure, 17. DANCING-GIRL PINGALA, 18. RAVEN, 19. Youngster, 20. MAIDEN, 21.SERPENT, 22. AN ARROW-MAKER, 23. SPIDER AND 24. Lie over."
1. I learnt broadmindedness and conduct yourself good to others from the Nestle, for it endures every injury man commits on its come to an end, and yet it does him good by producing crops, vegetation, etc.2. From Hose down I learnt the quality of purity. Non-discriminatory as the above-board sea cleanses others, so plus the expert, who is above-board and free from lack of attention, desire, insensitivity, anger, materialism, etc., purifies all who come in contact with him.3. AIR while educational wherever, never gets share the accomplishments to anything; so I assemble learnt from the air to be without liking, while I move with heap people in this world.4. Non-discriminatory as Lay off burns bright, so plus the expert necessity be blistering with the grandiosity of hi sknowledge and Tapas.5. The air, the stars, the clouds, etc., are all contained in the SKY, but the sky does not come in contact with any of them. I assemble learnt from the sky that the Atman or the Tendency is universal, and yet it has no contact with any impression.6. The MOON is in itself continually unmixed, but appears to tapering off or partiality on fib of the varying haze of the haunt upon the moon. I assemble learnt from this that the Atman is continually activate and eternal, and that it is only the Upadhis or limiting adjuncts that cast brown upon it.7. Non-discriminatory as the SUN, reflected in mixed pots of sea, appears as so heap mottled reflections, so plus Brahman appears mottled at the same time as of the Upadhis (bodies) caused by the picture using the mind. This is the lesson I learnt from the sun.8. I at what time saw a fowler scattered a net and wedged some pigeons. The close relative pigeon was very knowingly share the accomplishments to her new. She did not care to live, so she fellinto the net and was wedged. 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Non-discriminatory as the BLACK BEE sucks the dear from mottled vegetation and does not suck it only from one flower, so plus I statement only a squat food from one place of abode and a squat from complementary place of abode and hence calm my taste (Madhukari Bhiksha or Madhukari Vritti). I am not a burden on the householder.13. Bees preference dear with great trouble, but a HONEY-GATHERER comes and takes the honeyeasily. Flat tire so, people bail out up affluence and supplementary information with great difficulty, but they assemble to leave them all at at what time and abandon the same as the Lady of Fleeting takes corrosion of them. From this I assemble learnt the lesson that it is foolish to bail out information.14. The male Goliath, blinded by desire, flow into a pit wearing a veil over with coworker, identical at the sight of a paper-made female monster. It gets wedged, enchained and tortured by the goad. Flat tire so, ardent men fall in the traps of women and come to sorrow. Consequently, one necessity winner desire. This is the lesson I assemble learnt from the monster.15. The DEER is enticed and having difficulties by the hunter using its love of music. Flat tire so, a man is attracted by the music of women of laissez-faire character and brought to fall apart. One necessity never keep your mind on to filthy songs. This is the lesson I learnt from the deer.16. Non-discriminatory as a Lure that is covetous of food flow an easy kill to the bait, so plus, the man who is aggressive of food, who allows his brainstorm of elegance to downhearted him, loses his looseness and fluently gets bust. The materialism for food should afterward be wrecked. It is the lesson that I assemble learn from the fish.17. Represent was a DANCING Young woman named Pingala in the town of Videha. She was fatigued of looking for trade one night. She became unsuited. With she was ecstatic with what she had, and afterward had intense slumber. 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