You're heartbroken, you're no longer with the woman you love and as a guy you're struggling with it because nothing you've done so far has been able to fix it, has it?
The question that's driving you nuts is whether you REALLY can get her back?
You sure can. In fact, chances are so high it's actually harder to not get back together than it is to reconcile -- it's just that most guys have no clue what to do and make too many mistakes along the way and that ends up just pushing her further and further away.
Do you want that to happen?
Of course not.
Here's how to ensure that doesn't happen.
Do you really need to do no contact to win her back?
It's highly recommended. This time is the time for you to heal from the break up and become the man that she fell in love with in the first place -- not a blubbering, pleading bundle of emotions that she's never seen before. She'll answer get the chance to miss you and realise what life is really like for her without you in it.
How long do you have to have no contact for?
It may not be long at all. In fact, as soon as your ex starts to REALLY miss you and long for you it can only take a few days. However, if she doesn't initiate contact with you in a specific period then it's easy for you to do that and the best way to do that is either face to face or over the phone for a quick reconnect where you'll have her laughing, talking softly to you, and asking you to meet up because she's been thinking about you a lot.
Do I ask her to get back with me the first time we speak after no contact?
Definitely not. This is the time for you to be charming, fun, light hearted and you're super hot self. You need to just make her feel comfortable, no awkward silences, keep it short but really really sweet -- leave her longing for more.
What if she isn't ready to see me, what do I do?
Don't sweat. That's okay. Everyone's timing is different and she still may have issues about the break up that she wants to deal with first. Just take a deep breath, have faith, be patient and give her the time she needs. Don't beg, plead or do anything mushy at all. Be a man -- take it on the chin.
Just by following these tips that I've outlined in this article you're already on your way to reconnecting and having something magical happen between you again. You really need to use all the psychological triggers you can (some included in this article, some not) to magnetically attract her back into your life at a lightning speed. It's a lot easier than you think. She was madly in love with you once, she can still be crazy in love with you again soon.
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